I definitely agree that the Baha'i view on homosexuality is revolutionary by comparison. And such views on that should not determine whether or not someone respects a religion, though I disagree.
Heck, I have great respect for the Dalai Lama, but in his book "The Way to Freedom" he states that homosexuality is one of the ten "incorrect" paths, if I remember correctly. Doesn't decrease my respect for him.
BTW, I'm not going to convert to the Baha'i faith at the moment. I still would like to read more of its scripture. As it stands, I'm polytheistic, believing that all the gods exist, that they are our brothers, children of Gaia: Father Sky and Mother Earth, who is sister to Luna, both children of Solis, the Sun. And all that exists, whether we perceive it or not, is the very body of the One. The One is genderless, emotionless, and far beyond all our comprehension. I do not believe that the One manifests itself to us micro-electrons (^_^) any more than we would manifest ourselves to molecules.
But I have every intention of incorporating Baha'i philosophy into my beliefs. And from what I've read, I do believe that Baha'u'llah is a Sage, but one of many who walk the earth.