A human baby is a ball of flesh without it's own thoughts until several years after birth. Most people have NO MEMORY of their toddler years. Because I think, their body and mind is in BOOT DISK mode learning basic motor function, language, balancing, how to eat, and coordination, the most basic and rudimentary functions in human life.
Even post gaining sentient consciousness you are an imprint of what your parents and your surroundings upload into your life experieces. and you are merely a reflection of that. You don't gain self determination until maybe 15+ years beyond birth. Prior to that decisions are made for you, generally speaking some people grow up a lot faster than others from their vastly different life experiences.