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Baha'i
It has occurred to me that some people believe they are the authority of evidence for others, but it seems to me that authority lies with the individual. However I would agree that there are societal standards both formal and informal.
So my question is what are these standards? If I said my mother loves me would you consider that sufficient evidence to agree? Or do we need to run that hypothesis through the scientific method?
If I was trying to understand your family I would try to have a consult with you and your mother where you would say "My mother loves me!" and she would respond ....
For me a process of seeking is required to obtain evidence... We are obligated I feel over our lifetimes to experiment and see for ourselves .. to independently investigate truth and not simply to accept something without question.
"The state in which one should be to seriously search for the truth is the condition of the thirsty, burning soul desiring the water of life, of the fish struggling to reach the sea, of the sufferer seeking for the true doctor to obtain the divine cure, of the lost caravan endeavoring to find the right road, of the lost and wandering ship striving to reach the shore of salvation."
~ Abdu'l-Baha, Some Answered Questions, p. 38