Oh Amanaki, my mind never takes it that way. You have serious interest in Buddhism in the same way as I have. Buddha is one of my two gurus. No apologies needed. I reply to only the questions raised in a post and generally forget about it. When I reply to people like you, I am not on a guard.
Buddhism's birth and reincarnation is a very interesting topic. I will not be reborn, whether I am a layman or an enlightened person. Because 'I' in Buddhism has no substance (soul in other philosophies), and the body disintegrates. Anicca and Anatta. I am ephemeral, fleeting, short-lived, transitory, brief, short, temporary, transient, episodic, evanescent, illusionary, flitting, fugacious, impermanent, unenduring. So how can I be reborn? What will survive me are my karmas or the effect of them. My bad karmas may hurt other people.
That is my view. I am not a scholar of Buddhism. There are other people in the forum who are very knowledgeable about Buddhism. If someone sees my post, he/she is welcome to comment.