Gaura Priya
IRL
That was a big one for me too. Still is. When you think for yourself, discussion with the intent of conversion from the other side(on any matter, not just faith) can be annoying. But you have to understand it as immaturity and insecurity. Then its more easily tolerated.
I feel that save some organisations, the lack of forced conversions just add to the idea that our Sanatana Dharma is indeed a way of life and a culture; it is not simply a religious system in itself that can be easily extricated from daily life!
But then again, I've seen Hindus of all stripes in my life in varying levels of moderation and fanatical zeal.
I think the one thing that has always attracted me were the pujas and aartis; archana-vigraha. The worship done in Hindu fashion is so beautiful, that it pales in comparison! When I think of the way my Catholic childhood prayed in front of their statues and would count on their beads, and the way Hindus do so with their japa-malas and murtis, it just does not do justice!
The amount of beauty and devotion put into the process of archanam, or Deity worship service, is so beautiful. I wouldn't know what other spiritual system in the world would parallel that.
Gaur Haribol!