What do Christians think of intersexual people?
What gender role should they follow in your eyes?
Whom should they be attracted to in your eyes?
Would you try to "correct" an intersexual child through surgery?
For those who do not know, an intersexual is born with aspects from both binary genders (male and female).
Well, you're going to find different opinions among different Christians. I'd argue for one that we should be speaking of Christiani
ties rather than Christianit
y. Though much of my practice is completely private, solitary, and personal, and I have my own views on gender and such, the practice of the Episcopal Church is still varied in some ways when it comes to blessing same sex marriages. Some will, some won't. By canon law persons cannot be excluded from the priesthood or episcopate or discriminated against in any way in the church based on gender identity or expression. While probably aimed at the transgendered community, this would protect intersexed individuals as well whose gender identities and expressions may vary.
I plan to do more research, but currently I am leaning toward the position that while there are differences among people including significant ones usually associated with one sex or the other (genetic factors, the ability to bear children, etc.) that when it comes right down to it, gender is very difficult to determine absolutely and is probably more of a social construct than an objective reality. A friend of mine makes a brief case for gender inessentialism in a piece he wrote in favor of the ordination of women
here. A similar and more detailed argument can be found
here on an intersex rights website. There is also an article on
whether a Y chromosome makes a person a man.
To answer your questions:
What gender role should they follow in your eyes?
Whichever gender role seems most natural or fitting at the time. This may be male, female, something else, it may be fluid and change roles at times.
Whom should they be attracted to in your eyes?
I would evaluate the ethical status of an erotic-romantic relationship involving an intersexed person depending on the compatibility and flourishing of the couple (which flourishing and well being is not limited to material goods or procreation) and not based on the gender identities or expressions of the members of that couple. In other words for me gender and physical sex are irrelevant to such a question. Therefore I also do not object to same-sex couples. Nor do I absolutely in principle object to such relationships involving more than two persons.
Would you try to "correct" an intersexual child through surgery?
Absolutely
not. And I believe such a practice should be
criminalized. Sometimes the child will not be comfortable in the assigned gender and will only discover later in life what feels so wrong. This can lead to sex-change reversals that would have been unnecessary had no gender been assigned at birth. Many intersexed persons are comfortable with their own bodies or even
happy with them. Some are completely satisfied with their bodies, their gender identities (which are often ambiguous), their sex lives, and their relationships. Should an intersexed person desire to identify as male or female and also at the same time desire the physical body to match what is socially expected of that gender identity then (s)he can make that decision when (s)he is old enough to decide for hirself.