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What do you think about during sex?

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Deidre

Well-Known Member
When you're having sex with your SO/bf/gf/partner/spouse....what do you think about? I ask, because when I'm in a relationship and there's sexual intimacy... I tend to imagine my bf sleeping with other women...and that is the only way I become aroused.

There's just something about thinking about the guy I'm close to, with other women (never me)...that I find profoundly arousing. I'm seeing a guy now, and I've told him about this ''problem,'' and he finds it curious. He doesn't see it as a... problem, however. ^_^

Just wondering....What do you think about during sex?
 
bobhikes

bobhikes

Nondetermined
Premium Member
It depends If I overly excited I try to think about other things to calm we down so I don't end to soon. If I am feeling good and in control then how much I love my partner. If I am having problems getting finished usually pretty naughty things I would like to do to my partner.
 
Sunstone

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
Back in the day before I became celibate, I would imagine my partner's body as a musical instrument I was playing a symphony of pleasure on.

Nowadays that I'm celibate, I imagine if I had sex, I'd be thinking about the utilities bill.
 
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Deidre

Well-Known Member
bobhikes said:
It depends If I overly excited I try to think about other things to calm we down so I don't end to soon. If I am feeling good and in control then how much I love my partner. If I am having problems getting finished usually pretty naughty things I would like to do to my partner.
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That makes sense. How much you love your partner is very nice, indeed. This may sound strange but I find it difficult to think loving thoughts, simultaneously with erotic ones. lol

Bunyip said:
Ducati's
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Motorcycles? Not sure if serious. :p
 
Bunyip

Bunyip

pro scapegoat
Deidre said:
That makes sense. How much you love your partner is very nice, indeed. This may sound strange but I find it difficult to think loving thoughts, simultaneously with erotic ones. lol



Motorcycles? Not sure if serious. :p
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You haven't met many ducati riders then. :)
 
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Deidre

Well-Known Member
Sunstone said:
Back in the day before I became celibate, I would imagine my partner's body as a musical instrument I was playing a symphony of pleasure on.

Nowadays that I'm celibate, I imagine if I had sex, I'd be thinking about the utilities bill.
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Hmmm...going with this theme, I could think about the guy I'm seeing paying another woman's utility bills..............oh my.
:eek::D

Back in the day...you stayed in the moment. Hmmm. Good to know.
 
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Deidre

Well-Known Member
Bunyip said:
You haven't met many ducati riders then. :)
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who knew I'd be posting porn tonight? ;)

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DreadFish

DreadFish

Cosmic Vagabond
If im too excited and trying to calm myself down, I think about sports, or cats, or almost anything unrelated to sex.

If im not too aroused, I think about the fact that im having sex and be like "yeah, im having sex!" or something more specific, like parts of the girls body, or what I want to do to her. You know, sexy things.
 
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