I would say that this has been the most common question I’ve received while discussing God with people in my day to day life. Often times, they are struggling to reconcile the idea that you are supposed to love God, while being in fear of Him simultaneously.
What fearing God is for me is this: it is having absolute faith that He exists, and that He is just. I believe that karma physically exists, so for any negative thought or deed that I do, I will reap negative karma for it. Because I believe God is true, I believe it is sure to happen. Because I believe He is just, my negative thoughts and deeds will surely affect me negatively.
Its a situation in which the concordance is mostly useless. The definition derived is usually circular, coming from assumptions about what it means. We interpolate it to mean either mortal fear or reverence, but this is not a useful explanation by itself. What we're asking is what is reverence, but what the concordance tells us stupidly is that it means reverence. Reverence means reverence?
"But what is reverence?"
"Its reverential treatment and stuff."
Concordances are gateways to madness. They are interesting though, and they do offer insights to we who cannot read the language. They just aren't all that great. They use interpolation sometimes to determine what words mean, but we can usually do that ourselves. They do what we do then put an official stamp on it, and its slightly dishonest. They should say "We interpolate it to mean thus" and instead they don't say so. We have to figure that out, because they don't say it.
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FEAR
In Genesis 42:18 Joseph lies to his brothers, and to prove what he's saying is true he says "For I fear God." He does. That much is true. He does fear the same God, yet he's lying to them. Its confusing.
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REVERENCE
I can interpret a reverent definition by reading Exodus 18:21: "
...provide out of all the people able men, such as fear God, men of truth, hating covetousness..." which provides a little bit of a definition of what reverence must entail. Its possible to therefore do a better job than the concordance by proceeding to look up all uses of reverence and fear and to accumulate what traits go with it. Its not a 'Definition' though.
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