Second I have very little sympathy for someone who decided that they wanted to raise a family on minimum wages with little or no possibility of improving themselves. When one makes a decision that will affect them for the rest of their lives they better stop and think before they leap. I am not my brothers keeper,...
Oh, I can very well believe that you don't have much sympathy for the poor-- you've made that quite clear on numerous threads.
OK, a bit more Economics 101: if every single person in the U.S. had a ph.d., would we not have unemployment or people living in poverty? Ask the Israelis, because they experience something like that when Russian Jews with so many have good educational backgrounds flooded into Israel in the early 1990's, only to find that there simply weren't enough jobs available. The Israeli government, being a responsible one on this, went out of their way to help do their best to help them out, and at all different levels.
The idea that people are poor because they are ignorant or lazy is just another one of your bizarre stereotypes. Yes, there are some that are poorly educated and some that are lazy, but most people do want to work, and hindsight is always easier in life.
The fact that you would not be willing to help out your fellow Americans, not with "handouts" but with the local, state, and federal government trying to encourage the creation of more jobs and better wages, is very telling. How and why would you turn your back on them when even a minimum amount of assistance could help out millions? Why not help many who are poor get retrained? Why not pass laws that raise the minimum wage so the "nanny state" doesn't have to take care of so many?
Like so many things in life, you get what you're willing to pay for.