DharmaCatLamp
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I am inclined to agree.Religions are way less important in people's lives than religious people think they are.
Religious people behave like atheists the vast majority of the time. Despite thinking that their religion is a central part of their life, people tend not to actually live as if their religions' tenets are reliably true... and those who do live this way come across as very bizarre.
My own experience of being someone born into a non-religious family but finding that spirituality was rather important to me I often got the feeling that religion was window dressing for folks. I would go to churches, mosques, temples etc on my journey and tended to find that people liked the social aspect of religion but didn't actually seem to pay it much mind. For other people religion was much more about identifying with a group than any deeper spiritual meaning. When trying to talk to people about religion their eyes would often glaze over and people born into traditions just didn't seem to find it as important as I did.
Now this is not always the case and I don't think this makes me better or somehow more holy than those people. I just couldn't help but notice that the enthusiasm I had towards learning more or practice was just not shared. It reminds me of this ultra conservative guy at my old work who was a pastor but loved guns. When I asked him about turning the other cheek he said " Oh I don't believe in that crap." which told me that his identity as a gun lover was more important than his identity as a christian in that case and that was coming from a pastor lol