Exactly my point: your "friendliness" is conditional. The warmth in the video - to the extent that a marketing video can be relied on at all - is reserved for members of your in-group and proselytizing prosepects.
Comparing your gay neighbours to murderers is an example of disrespect.
And you are responsible for your own decisions; you don't get to pawn that off on God.
Plenty of Christians have found more charitable interpretations of the Bible than yours, and even if you can't see any way to get to them yourself, you're still accountable for choosing to follow immoral tenets of your religion.
Well, that depends.
If God is the "still small voice" that the Bible describes, then your religion is antithetical to the will of God.
That's every theist, including you. Your God likes what you like and hates what you hate. Your God is an expression of your personal values.