@SaintMatthew : I want to make it clear that the help homosexuals and other LGBT people need is full acceptance and respect for their sexuality as it is. For homosexuals that means stopping attempts to change them, for transexuals it means helping them in changing
as they want to. We should not attempt to cause them conflicts that have no reason to exist.
Everyone should judge Allah, or God, or Amaterasu, or Ganesha, or whoever, and continuously so at that. Unless they don't care about those deities, that is.
How else would it be possible to be good devotees?
How else could they trust their deities of choice?
To the extent they are, it seems to be mostly because our social demands are so much higher.
But for the most part it seems that it is acknowledgement, not incidence, that is raising.
But I insist and repeat, it is
wrong and disrespectful to treat LGBT as something to be "avoided".
If
any God fails to realize that, then he is a moron (or worse) and therefore completely unworthy of my attention or respect. If any religion insists that God exists and demands that I disapprove of LGBT people or fail to fully accept them, then I will know that religion to be misguided.
Automatically. And I will no longer be able of taking that misguided religion seriously.
Religious doctrine can't over-rule what I know to be true. Simple like that.
LGBT, you mean? I take it that you perceive it as something of a fad as opposed to a legitimate reality that needs acceptance and respect?
I fear you are not alone. I know you are wrong nevertheless. I will not give you an inch.
I do blame excessive attachment to beliefs that justify themselves with belief in God for the grave disrespect for LGBT, and your implication that LGBT is hurting society is a good example.
The closest I can come to agree with you is by emphasizing that
family is a serious, important thing. Children need access to good, solid parental roles and a healthy extended family. But that in no way implies that those parental roles must or even should be particularly traditional. And that is certainly no excuse to try and force them out of their natural sexualities, which will of course sometimes be LGBT.
LGBT must be respected. And respect is acceptance, not pressure into conforming.
Come to think of it, this reminds me of how many Muslims claim to respect atheists and even Christians ("there is no compulsion in religion") all the while failing utterly to realize that "respect" does not mean "waiting patiently for us to submit".
Sorry, Dawud. I'm pretty certain that you mean well. But you are just wrong in assuming that it is possible to "heal" homosexuality and transexuality without commiting grievous, deeply disrespectful violence.
I
can't respect what you are saying, and
I will not try to.
It is all-out
shameful for anyone, of any religion, to attempt to force LGBT into "conforming" to other people's expectations. To call that healing is obscene. To justify that with religious beliefs is a major reason why religion is mistrusted these days.