Really? Well let's see. First, a definition of perversion:
Definition of perversion
- a perverted form; especially : an aberrant sexual practice or interest especially when habitual
- Source" Merriam- Webster Dictionary
Might be helpful to define "aberrant" as well.
1 : deviating from the usual or natural type : atypical, abnormal aberrant behavior
Source" Merriam- Webster Dictionary
So, are oral and anal sex unusual, abnormal, or even aberrant?
Let's see.
Looking at the 25 - 59 year old age groups (those most sexually active)
49 - 77% of the men receive oral sex, and 44 - 74% of the women receive oral sex. That's a darn good percentage of men and women receiving oral sex.
44 - 74% of men performed oral sex, while 36 -76% of the women performed oral sex That's also a darn good percentage.
As for anal sex, which is just coming into acceptance, and pretty much limited to men on the giving end and women on the receiving end.
Looking at only the younger groups, 20 - 39 years old: (those most familiar with the option)
11 - 27% of the men participated, while 21 - 23% of the women did.
Conclusions:
With one half to three quarters of the population involved in oral sex it can hardly be considered abnormal or a perversion---by a long shot.
As for anal sex, which as I noted, is just beginning to gain in popularity, we're looking at around one fifth to one quarter of the population, which does not reach the level of normal (50% + taken as normal) and can be said to be an abnormal practice, but not a perversion unless habitual.
So, while you may see oral sex as a perversion and all anal sex as a perversion, your notion of perversion is yours alone, and isn't supported by the facts. But hey, we both knew this all along, didn't we. For the most part I wanted others to see where the truth lay, and not be snookered by your personal biases.
Oh yes, considering how many people derive sexual gratification from oral sex maybe you and the misses ought to give it a try. It can't hurt . . . . . . . if done properly
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