Nobody will gravitate to their own choice of company after death. Jesus is the only One who will either cast unbelievers into the lake of fire or He will receive believers (Christians) into eternal paradise.
No person has any control of their destiny, Jesus has all the power and He alone decides where individuals spend eternity.
I did not say it would be their choice where people end up in the afterlife. Is falling due to gravity a choice?
However, it is the choices that we make in this world that will determine where we end up in the afterlife.
Everyone determines their own destiny because we all have free will to live a good life and to accept or reject God.
Jesus won't be casting anyone anywhere because the lake of fire is just an allegory, not a real place people go.
Regarding Jesus accepting Christians into eternal paradise, I would not count your chickens before they hatch.
No person has
complete control of their destiny, but it is God who has all the power and He alone decides where individuals spend eternity. Jesus has no say in it because Jesus is not God.
I'm not sure how you got involved with you religion, but Jesus warned Christians not to listen to any other Prophets after He goes back to heaven. He said that many false prophets would come after Him, teaching the doctrine of Demons. I take Jesus at His word so I consider every other prophet who came after Jesus as servants of Satan preaching Doctrine of Demons.
Jesus did not warn Christians not to listen to
any other Prophets after He goes back to heaven, Jesus warned Christians to beware of false prophets. However,
all prophets are not false, because had that been the case Jesus would never have said
Ye shall know them by their fruits. If there were not going to be any more true prophets Jesus would not have said
Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
Matthew 7:15-20 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
Fruits: the pleasant or successful result of work or actions:
fruit