What's Wrong with Being Sexy?

[Skwim]

Nothing at all, as long both sexes are subject to it

Now I bet you look nothing like these guys. But if you lived in a culture where you had to look like these guys to get some validation, it really messes with your head. You would have to sacrifice a lot of your social life and probably take some drugs to look like this. Especially if you want quick results fast.

Why would you need validation from strangers?

Sexiness is fine, the point where sexy people are given more privilege than un-sexy people is where it becomes wrong.

Kind of like the privileges of all the not-so-good-lookin' celebrities, and all the politicians and their toadies, and all the titans of industry, and all those with the money to buy their way into privilege? Thing is, there is always going to be the exceptions who take advantage of the assets others lack.

The point where looks add to a person's value is where it becomes wrong.

Outside of vanity, personal value is something ascribed by others. If others want to value me more because of my searing blue eyes,

something I didn't strive for, why should I consider my searing blue eyes to be wrong?

BTW, you'd win your bet. I don't buckle my jeans across my genitals. BTW² What's with these people who can't pull their pants up?

 

[Skwim]

Hang on.......
So who decides who and what is normal?
Who decides who or what is well adjusted?

There....... see?
You've spoiled it all....!

I decide.


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[Milton Platt]

You think being & acting sexy is OK?
I challenge you to imagine me in me kilt doing that.

glad i finished my dinner some time ago.

 

[oldbadger]

I decide.


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Oh Blimey!
So you will decide who's normal and well-adjusted?

Oh well, that could be a lucky break for some of us....

 

[FearGod]

Assuming one is a normal, well adjusted adult what's wrong with being or feeling sexy?



Either in .........................Behavior......................... or.................................. Dress?

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It depends on the situation, who's doing it and for whom, for example if I asked you to post here
in this one thread your wife, daughter, sister ..etc doing the same thing, do you think it's a moral
request or do you think it's moral for you to post such a thing for the ones you love and care about.