I do, that doesn't mean that I believe every single thing is because of divine punishment. If you crash your car on an icy road is it because you did something that your religion says is bad, or is it because you hafta go to work and live in a region with winter weather?
If you smoke multiple times a day for years on end, there's a strong probability that you'll suffer severe respiratory issues. Is that divine retribution for earthly pleasures, or is it you indulging even though you know about the health risks that come with it?
If you got robbed and killed, then it wasn't anyone's fault except for the psycho who assaulted you.
The Gods don't need to parent and punish us every step of the way, and certainly not for every single itty bitty thing.
Sometimes bad stuff happens, because life is unpredictable and there's no guarantee that you will live a long or happy life.
Suffering if often a state of mind, due to the ego striving and not reaching its subjective desires or its images of perfection. This could be the teen age girl or boy suffering from self image problems, that even their parents and friends cannot sooth. If the goal of your striving is a perfect textbook life; good job, nice home, loving spouse and children, and you fall short or bugs appear in the perfection; people change, many people suffer, based on their own rules, hopes and expectations. As I get older and learn not to strive for things I cannot change, but flow with life, this simple change of attitude takes way suffering. We have will and choice to suffer and even play the martyr. We can blame God for our failure, to fulfill our own lofty expectations.
For example, transgender people choose to be the martyr, since common sense and experience tells us this lifestyle will rub many people the wrong way and create negative feedback. It will be impossible to change the entire world and everyone else, so a few can strive toward their subjective desire. That is the choice one makes. But if you accept the inevitable and not amplify the negative feedback loop, rubbing too hard against the fur of culture, you can still find a place of peace and self acceptance; more self contained.
You make a good point... Damien died and his post was vacant. That's where the analogy to Jesus breaks down. Jesus died but rose again to continue offering ministry to the hurting and give us eternal life.
I don't know of any other religion whose God became human to suffer along with us. I find it remarkable.
Jesus and others helped people gain a sense of perspective that takes away their suffering, like forgiveness of sins. The Lepers still remained Lepers, but they found a new center with the help of the Priest. The world is still the same, but one learns to be more accepting of imperfections in ourselves and others.
Jesus speaks about the old self dying; ego. The human ego is the point central of suffering; subjective striving based on the superego of culture. While the inner man, or inner self, brings us back to a natural attitude. The life of natural animals is tougher than what human have, since they are often on their own and have no cultural logistics or welfare state. They have to live outside with predators, in cold and hot. Yet, animals find a way to be content and even happy, living in harmony with their inner instincts.
Small children are natural and unless they are hungry, they can find joy in simplicity. Less you be as children you cannot enter the kingdom of contentment. Small children do not have a full powered ego, but are spontaneous due to their inner self and natural human instincts. Religion is about a return to paradise; natural man. But that is harder to do while also living in the land of egos and collective striving and suffering due to falling short of one's and the group's desires and expectations.