I agree...we should take what opportunities that are in front of us and help..Family first..then all others...
BUT one time ....
John 12 (King James Version)
King James Version (KJV)
John 12
1Then Jesus six days before the passover came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, which had been dead, whom he raised from the dead.
2There they made him a supper; and Martha served: but Lazarus was one of them that sat at the table with him.
3Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment.
4Then saith one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, which should betray him,
5Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor?
6This he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a thief, and had the bag, and bare what was put therein.
7Then said Jesus, Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this. 8For the poor always ye have with you; but me ye have not always.
Jesus was not opposed to spending some money for enrichment and enjoyment even if not out of sheer need of basics...
He was defending Mary...sister of Lazaurus that she poured what was basically her life savings out and annointed Him.. ...Washing his feet with a fortune..and the whole room enjoyed the aroma of the expensive perfume..He was being honored...
He told Judas to shut up and leave Mary alone...
Blessings
Dallas