Maybe I shouldn't be one to talk, but I do agree with you 100%. "New Age" belief systems should not have the right to rewrite the divine relationships between divine beings from any belief system, along with a ton of other really, really strange, awful, and definitely white-washing/modern westernizing/appropriative, ignorant reinterpretations of vital religious material from various cultures. There can be a definite lack of reverence, respect, and just plain common decency in regards to many, if not most, Pagan movements. It's part of the reason I don't identify with any Pagan group or belief system in particular... most (or at least many) of them are f'ed up like that.