Every time you ask the question, hasn't the reply been the same monotheistic God.
No, not at all. It's not uncommon for me to hear a response like "yeah, that's the deity I had in mind, but feel free to share from your tradition too." It feels courteous to wait to share a tale until I'm sure that it is something the OP wanted to include in the discussion. Besides, I endeavor to practice active listening. The practice of active listening involves asking questions to clarify the speaker's meaning in order to facilitate good communications and mutual understanding.