So that advice from one person shaped your whole approach to Bible study?
When I first started my study of the Bible over 45 years ago, all I had was an illustrated KJV that my grandmother gave me when I was 10 years old. I used to sit and gaze at the pictures for ages because they seemed to resonate with me more than the words did. But as I got older, the words took on greater meaning.
I prayed the Lord's prayer every week in church and at the age of about 16, I realized that I had no idea what I was praying for. What was I going to church for if they couldn't teach me something as fundamental as what "God's Kingdom" is and how it will bring about the doing of God's will "on earth as it is in heaven"? In my late teens I finally left the church system and went searching for God elsewhere....but I didn't find him.
In my early 20's, after a lot of excursions into different faiths, I am pleased to say that He found me when I answered a knock on my door. I had never lost my belief in God or respect for his word, but I completely lost faith in the church system. Also I had just lost my father to a heart attack at the age of 52. I was looking for answers.
The paid clergy were up there as one of my beefs.
The other was the fact that whenever our nation was at war, the church was supportive of the conflict and even encouraged the soldiers who participated as if Jesus had never said to 'love our enemies". There was just so much hypocrisy.
And all the dead apparently 'went to heaven to be with the Lord'.....but no one could ever tell me why that felt so wrong.
As time went on, and the more that technology advanced, various Bible translations became available online, so I would paw over those translations for comparison and I discovered Strong's Concordance, which gave me the meanings of words in their original form. What emerged from that exercise was the way the KJV (and some other versions) rendered various verses, especially those related to the trinity, that exhibited bias in wording that were not accurately translated.
There are so many superior translations now that don't lose the meaning of words because they don't rely on archaic English, which is no longer in use. The KJV is a dinosaur that needs to become extinct IMO.
Its funny that you should talk about "pew sitters" because that so well describes the church goers who turned up at my church every week but left their "Christianity" at the door on their way out. "Christianity" was something they 'did' once a week, not something they were 24/7.
Are you saying that you would resort to violence if he messed up? Really?