So how about you?
Are you religious or not?
And can you provide the main reasons for your belief/unbelief in god(s)
I grew up like most all people being exposed to religion as a child. While my sister and cousins all bought into the claims I had serious doubts. I kept asking why we are in church, and what do these ideas mean, and what is God, and who is jesus, etc. I got very unsatisfactory answers. I was 8-9-10 when I first noticed my Catholic aunt's family did not get along with my Southern Baptist aunt's family. All were Christians and had the same core beliefs, but huge disagreement. I couldn't help but notice something very wrong here. The ideals of their religions were not working. It all rubbed me the wrong way. I could not get into any religious belief due to the serious discrepancies.
It wasn't until my 30's that I started studying religion and philosophy that my intuition was correct, that religions offer a conditional and subjective truth that tends tyo not conform to fatcs or what we can know is true about reality. That lead me to studying the psychology of religion. This area of human behavior is actually pretty well explained, and understanding how the human brain evolved to believe, and how belief in tribal norms allowed humans to survive through difficult periods of history, can inform us about why we believe today, and why belief is so important to those people and not others.
As we debate the beliefs of religious people we skeptics are ofetn asked whethere we believe in their version of God. The dilemma is that these Gods are poorly defined, and what makes a Muslim not a Christian is the rules they follow, not how their God is defined. They supposedly follow the same God. Having debated since 1996 I have seena trend where theists are less willing to define what they think their God is, and have a very vague notion of God. God tends to be an ambiguous idea, so as a debate claim it is very difficult to render judgment. Theists may offer what they believe is evidence but it is more accurately to call it more claims. Rejecting this weak evidence leads to being accused of not being open minded, or not getting it, or something else. Oddly believers can't explain what they "see" or if they have special abilities to see evidence for God. So what gives?
I defer back to what the psychology of religion outlines, and that religious belief is learned behavior, and ideas are accepted and adopted from others in their social experience. These cultural concepts are learned mush the same way language is learned, it is not a dliberate and conscious action, it is a function of how our social brains work. We learn words, meanings, concepts, and then use these in how we relate to others. Conformity to group norms is a crucial impulse for most humans, and we behave this way without realizing it. How many people in your city of region root for local sports teams and not teams far away from you? I live in Kansas City and our football team is playing in the Superbowl next week. You don't see any Eagles fans in town UNLESS they have an affiliation to philadelphia. That's tribalism at work.
Theists who insist their God exists, yet can't offer extraordinary evidence it does, are often frustrated with skeptics asking for more evidnce and a coherent explanation of the evidence. They typically admit in the end that it is faith, not reason and facts, that they used to decide a God exists. That is not good enough for critical thinkers.
Primarily, the lack of falsifiable evidence. I can add the futility of prayer, childhood leukemia, the mosquito, natural disasters, unavoidable suffering, science, inconsistency between religions, lack of need for god(s) etc among other reasons.
I often point out these natural phenomenon that should not exist with a moral God that is a creator. Believers tend to ignore these. These examples obviously is a conumdrum for them, and certainly a fly in their belief in a moral God. Some have blamed the Devil for these problems, but that only begs the question of why God created the Devil if it knew the trouble he would cause. The buck stops at God, the Creator.