only God can make someone be 'born again'.... if he has chosen someone to be 'born again' it will only happen to them after they have died because only when the physical body dies can it be 'born again' into a spiritual body.
1 Peter 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, for according to his great mercy he gave us a new birth to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,...23 For YOU have been given a new birth, not by corruptible, but by incorruptible [reproductive] seed, through the word of [the] living and enduring God.
Notice vs 3 says its a 'resurrection from the dead'
this means that when a person dies, they will be brought up from the condition of 'death' into a new spirit body by a new birth. You cannot be born again unless you first die because it is a resurrection 'from the dead'
I know the Flesh Means the sinful nature and the only way to change this is through the faith. To be born of the spirit (born again)
Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the spirit. 2 For the law of the spirit of life in Christ Jesus
hath made me free from the law of sin and Death.
3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin condemed sin in the flesh. ( by his stripes we are healed)
Romans 6:1 What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? 2 God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin live any longer therein? 3 Know ye not, that so many of us as were baptized
into Jesus
Christ were baptized into his death? 4 Therefor we are buried with him in by baptism into death: ( as you said we must die first) That like as Christ was raised up from the dead ( the resurrection) by the Glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
He spoke of the present. To die and be made the New Man.
Are you a CHRISTIAN and you do not understand these things?