seeming that Christianity developed from Paganism why are most Christians so hung up on the sex issue? Correct me if I"m wrong but I'm sure this isn't the case with Paganism.
For instance, pre-marital sex is NOT banned in Paganism, right?
I know you can interpret the Bible in many ways but the general consensus among most Christians is that Pre-marital and homosexuality is a big no no (even though Jesus certainly never directly mentions pre-marital).
This is a big turn-off (excuse the pun) to Christianity for me which is a shame as some of the philosophy is good.
Surely men and women were made with biological instincts so what's the problem with the Christians and what are they scared of?
As someone else said, Christianity stems from Judaism not Paganism.
I can only speak for myself but I don't consider myself "hung up" on sex, as a Christian. But I do believe God designed sex only for marriage and only between a man and a woman. I GREATLY disagree that the general consensus among MOST Christians is that pre-marital sex and homosexuality are not big deal. Perhaps among liberal Christians but most definitely NOT among general Christians. Conservative Christians make up the majority, and I can guarantee the majority of conservative Christians do NOT agree with that statement at.all.
Now, with that said, perhaps the majority have themselves fornicated in some way, but do not confuse participating in sin with condoning it. I have sinned, I am a sinner. I have lied, cheated, said ugly things, acted in a way I shouldn't, had premarital sex, etc yet I knew and still know all those things are wrong and sin. I did them b/c I was weak and not rightly in tune with God like I should have been.
God created sex. God created sex to be fun and enjoyable. However, God created sex to ideally be between a
married man and woman. There are many reasons for this design by God. As someone said earlier, responsibility. I agree with that. Does being married automatically mean a happier family? No. But in my belief the ideal is a loving mother and a loving father so that a child grows up with both dimensions in their life. I do believe a child ends up missing a great part developmentally without one or the other in their life. In discussing this on another site, another thing that came up was STD's. STD's would be practically nonexistent if premarital sex did not exist. We wouldn't need our 12 yr olds getting vaccines for STD's that cause cancer and having all these adverse side effects from it if people weren't so "whatever" about sex. Babies are having babies b/c of this "have sex whenever, where ever, do whatever you want" mentality our society has taken on.
I personally hate the way the world is so complacent about sex. It's no longer seen as something special, cherished, or treasured. That said, I can see why those who don't see it that way, don't understand the religious view that it is. In our faith, it is something that bonds a couple together in a unique way - emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and physically. And that union is special and designed to work in unison perfectly in marriage.
Adultery; Extramarital sex; Infidelity - 27% - Wikipedia 2004 statistic
A number of studies and clinical reports suggest that up to 90 percent of first time divorces involve infidelity.
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I wonder how much our societies "it's just sex" attitude of premarital sex plays into this? I'm not saying it does in every case, just wondering how much it does. I know I get scoffed at with my "sex is something special, cherished, and to be treasured" line of thinking. IMO there has to be some correlation in attitudes about sex.
All I'm saying is logically there is reason for this design God created and we're seeing it more and more in our world today
only not in a good way.