Life doesn't run a clear course
It flows through from within
It's supposed to take you places
And leave markings on your skin
And those marks are just a sign
Of something true
You witnessed in your time
Of something new.
"Love will Come Again to You" by Poets of the Fall.
It seems to me that a frequent vice of youth is to more or less be convinced that you know how you will think or feel about things even decades hence, and that you even know how your life will in general develop. But if that's so for so many young people, why is it so?
For instance, over the years, I've heard one young person after another say with (in most cases) nearly absolute conviction something along the lines of "I will never find love", when in fact finding love is something most humans do sooner or later in their lives -- and sometimes do often in their lives. Why, then, are so many young people convinced they know they will never find love?
Why is it so difficult for people (especially it seems, for young people) to grasp in a practical manner that their future is much more a matter of odds or probabilities than it is a matter of certainties? And grasp that they just might lack the experience to fairly estimate many of those odds or probabilities? Is it, perhaps, because we have some kind of emotional need for the false sense of security that the illusion of certainty provides? If so, then why do we have that need?
It flows through from within
It's supposed to take you places
And leave markings on your skin
And those marks are just a sign
Of something true
You witnessed in your time
Of something new.
"Love will Come Again to You" by Poets of the Fall.
It seems to me that a frequent vice of youth is to more or less be convinced that you know how you will think or feel about things even decades hence, and that you even know how your life will in general develop. But if that's so for so many young people, why is it so?
For instance, over the years, I've heard one young person after another say with (in most cases) nearly absolute conviction something along the lines of "I will never find love", when in fact finding love is something most humans do sooner or later in their lives -- and sometimes do often in their lives. Why, then, are so many young people convinced they know they will never find love?
Why is it so difficult for people (especially it seems, for young people) to grasp in a practical manner that their future is much more a matter of odds or probabilities than it is a matter of certainties? And grasp that they just might lack the experience to fairly estimate many of those odds or probabilities? Is it, perhaps, because we have some kind of emotional need for the false sense of security that the illusion of certainty provides? If so, then why do we have that need?