Why should we feel grief when our loved one decided it was time to die? Her life would have been fulfilled. Death would be a celebration of a new beginning, a new journey. The whole concept of death as a cause for grief would be turned on its head.
Every time someone I have known and loved has died, I have grieved. I grieve because I have loved and will miss that individual. In order that grief over loss not exist, love would also have to cease to exist. Your answer is overly simplistic, and I think you know that.
Not necessarily. Is failure, in and of itself, evil? Is disappointment and frustration necessarily a form of suffering? Imagine a child trying to learn to ride his bike. He wouldn't get it the first time, but he knows he as time to try again; he knows that his "failures" are only steps towards his success. No, I don't think frustration and disappointment would exist simply because our frame of mind would view things differently.
Why shouldn't failure be considered evil? It's the opposite of success, which is what we all strive for. Do you enjoy being disappointed and frustrated when you to do something time and time again, only to fail? You say that failure is only a step towards success. I agree. I would take it a step further and say that we appreciate our successes even more when they are not immediate. That's why failure, disappointment and frustration are essential to our happiness. It seems to me that you are able to understand this to some degree. You just draw the line in a different place than I do.
Is this necessary? You imagine a world of blandness; I imagine a world of diversity that is tolerated, appreciated, and not biased against.
And why is it tolerated, appreciated and not biased? Would people have a choice to be tolerant, non-judgmental and open-minded or would we be hard-wired to have these qualities? If we were hard-wired to have these qualities, what would that make us? If we had a choice in the matter, some of us might choose to be all of those things. Others, however, would undoubtedly choose hatred, bigotry and intolerance.
No, apparently obstacles wouldn't be a part of your perfect world. I see no contradiction between the existence of obstacles and the elimination of suffering.
Where do you draw the line though? A skier practices and practices to become good at the sport he loves. He tries over and over again to perfect his form and to excel. He fails many times, gets discouraged and wants to give up. But something keeps him going. Finally, he achieves success and beomes a world-class skier. And then, he is in a horrible accident and crashes into a tree, becoming paralyzed. Suddenly, the perfect world -- the one in which you see no contradiction between the existence of suffering and the elimination of suffering -- ceases to exist.
Out of curiousity, what do you think heaven is? I personally believe the idea of heaven to be a delightful place of serenity, contentment, growth, and enjoyment. There are many people who mock the idea of heaven, saying that it must be "boring". Isn't my idea of a perfect world the same concept as heaven? Will there be evil in heaven?
As strange as is may seem, my idea of Heaven is not all that different from yours, except that I see it as something that we can attain only after having experienced a world where we can learn to truly appreciate it and not simply take it for granted.0
Again, out of curiousity, what is your concept of the Garden of Eden? Man did not know the difference between good and evil, and all was at peace. Man still had things to do: ordering the animals and plants, naming things, conversing with Eve. Was this the dreary, bland life you depicted above? If so, then why did God consider it to be good?
And how long would ordering the animals and plants, naming things and conversing with Eve have satisfied man? I believe it would have become bland fairly early on. Would Adam still be as happy there now as he supposedly was 6000 years ago? Would he still be happy 6 million years from now? How many times can you name plants and animals after all?
Of course, the ability to do evil existed, by disobeying God's one and only commandment. Yet, suffering and evil really did not enter the world until that commandment was broken. I see the Garden of Eden as proof that the Judeo-Christian God could have created a perfectly wonderful world without suffering. And yet, he chose a different method.
Yes, He chose a different method because He had something far more wonderful in store for Adam and Eve and their posterity. That's why He allowed them to be tempted, and when they succombed to temptation, He said, "The man has become as one of us, to know the good from the evil." It would have been absolutely impossible for Adam and Eve to progress without having to experience trials, heartache, and all of the negative things that are a part of life. And yet, by obedience -- once they actually understood the difference between good and evil -- they could experience the world, learn to make good choices, come to appreciate the difference between the opposites that would be a part of life and, in the end, be reunited with God in a place that was far better than Eden could have ever been.