Do you get angry when someone criticises your ideas?
Do you assume bad intentions, like the interlocutor wanting to dominate or censor you?
Do you criticise others ideas? Why?
Why do you post ideas in a forum when you don't want them to be criticised?
When I post a hypothesis, I want it to be dissected and the errors pointed out so that I can learn from it and refine or discard the hypothesis. Using the golden rule, I assume others want the same. I'm just helping when I criticise.
Is that wrong?
Debate me.
I don't get angry at criticism, unless it's unconstructive, terse, or otherwise unhelpful or unexplanatory. At the very least, tell me why you disagree, as that's just common courtesy. If I get an answer akin to "if you don't know, I'm not going to tell you," then I'm going to assume that they're being intentionally rude.
A lot of debates seem to be more over conflicting values and different philosophies, although for the most part, they get bogged down in minutia and obscurantism.