Dearest
@Ella S.
Your question expresses the healthy and empathetic, valuable side of humanity that we should all cherish when experienced within.
One of life’s many profound and trying challenges is that of coming to terms with what is not within our reach and/or power to change.
In numerous ways throughout life (some, more inconceivable than others), we will be faced with chances to figure out how we may reconcile with the very real limits to our influence on and control over certain aspects, people and circumstances, without allowing hopelessness and despair to stop us from loving, caring and indeed -when and where we can- acting from our hearts to aid our fellow beings.
How
do we come to terms with not always being able to ease another’s pain,
without losing our precious and very real sense of belonging and purpose; our genuine sense of humanity? This is a challenge which must be accepted and devoutly worked on if one is not to allow one’s limits to stop one from easing any struggles or pains at all.
No one can truly tell you how to come to peace with the limitations you will face. Through trial, error and patience, you must yourself reach your very own balanced state of being. And when you have, you will know it, because it is from there that you’ll be able to aid others in the best ways available to you and only to you.
Wishing you perseverance, courage and clarity on your way.
Humbly,
Hermit