The question is: Is God evil for letting little kids suffer and die. Obviously not. That is the ultimate good. Apparently, the little rascals get a free pass until 12-14 anyway, so what's the problem? But, what about all the people that died before Jesus came? I wonder? Do they get some special treatment? I would doubt it. I think the only ones that God saves are those that believed God would send Jesus some day. They definitely believed without seeing. Of course, they couldn't have known exactly who Jesus was, or what he would do for them, but just knowing he was coming was probably enough.
All the rest of the people in the world that never heard of Judaism, let alone the expected Messiah, they're plum out of luck. They were born depraved. Stayed depraved, and died depraved. So in their horrible wickedness, that God allowed them to be in, they definitely deserve hell.
Now their evil, sinful kids, that's different. If they got sick and died or were some other way killed, they go to heaven. They can't be held accountable for something they couldn't understand. Not like their sinful parents, who knew they should obey God, but because they never heard about the true God, they choose not to listen and obey him. They, instead, choose to follow other gods, that weren't real. Unlike the real God that only acts as if he's not around and doesn't care, but that's only so we know how much he does care. Because, he's giving us the opportunity to believe in him by faith.
Except he did talk face to face with Adam and spoke with an audible voice to several people. So it's not like he's totally distant and unavailable. We do have the authentic record of trustworthy people that say they saw him and heard him. Which is too bad for them, because how can they have true faith now? So lucky for us that Jesus has come. We have trustworthy people that wrote down all the things we needed to believe. Now all we have to do is obey his commands and to do his will, except we can't, because we're so sinful and evil.
Hmmm? That must make it tough on people to believe God is real when the people that claim to know him really don't do a very good job at following him? But that's probably for the best. If they were kind, compassionate, and loving people we'd probably all want to be like them. Which misses the point, God wants it to appear as if they are whacked out religious fanatics to make us approach him for the right reason... out of total faith.
So I want to say, thank you God for making, I mean, giving us this miserable place to live in, with all the pain and suffering. That way, we can truly come to know you, as the kind, just and malevolent, oops, I mean benevolent God that you are. Thank you for creating the devil to tempt us and lead us astray, so we can get to know you. Thank you for creating viruses and bacteria and parasites and degenerative diseases, so we can know the real you. Thank you for allowing us the privilege of turning away from you, so you could curse us and make child birth painful and make thorns and thistles to grow. We sinned and are born sinners. We don't deserve an easy life. Thank you for making, I mean, allowing so many religions and wrong interpretations of your truth, so we can study and ponder what could possibly be the real truth. But really, thank you the most for your people. The ones that stumble and bumble and are in no way humble as they thump us with their Bibles. The ones that sound so self-righteous and lacking in compassion that they turn away all but the truly worthy from your name. Without them, we probably would all believe, way too easily, and what good would that do.