I would like to add a conclusion point in addition to my formal reply in this thread, which I reached after thoroughly thinking and analyzing for years,
Lahw, which literally means distraction and entertain is Not forbidden, the holy Qura’n did Not forbid lahw, it forbade only if it summon people to directly and Clearly to Disbelieve, do wrong deeds, and leave the obligatory prayer
Music itself is not deviating from Allah at all; in fact most music especially classic & light music increases the person’s musical sense and thus enhance the recitation ability of the holy Quran.
Agree, but this bad effect is relative and differs from a listener to another, it’s a personal choice depending on if the person is sexually overwhelmingly excited by the woman’s singing or not.
I want to assure and clarify in detail an important point:
Lahw “which literally means distraction and entertain “in general is Not forbidden at all in the holy Qur’an and Hadith, and it’s mentioned in the holy Qur'an in addition to trade in the same context equally, which simply means that both of them "Trade & Lahw" are permissible, But they can distract the person from the Obligatory prayer in time, and So in the same context: If trade, work, or Entertain & Distraction “Lahw” occupy the person's full time and distract him from doing good deeds like praying & praising and thanking God Almighty both in mind and verbally with a heart full of Gratefulness, obedience and humbleness towards the Divine, Then this Lahw in this special case is forbidden.
And so, this explains how there are some few traditions “Hadiths” saying that the Prophet enjoined listening to good singing in some few occasions especially in Eid and travel, whether by male or female voices, with the illustration that this singing had good moral meaning words either religiously or patriotically, And the female tone had No incline towards excitation or even mild softening.
I never found a Hadith saying that the Prophet enjoyed romantic singing or female voice inclining towards excitation or even mild softening.
And So, this gets very complicated, Because more than 90% of the singing industry is in this Category, Romantic Enticing Indirectly or Directly towards fulfilling the Emotional or Sexual needs of men or women. And For honesty this in my opinion is a very serious problem.
Even As for myself or any religious Muslim, if you ask me to encourage my mother or my sister or even my brother, to engage in the singing industry, I Know at once the bad outcome, and I will advise her/him Against this serious bad environment.
There is a great example of a famous very talented Egyptian singer in the 20th century, She started in a very respectful path singing very good religious and patriotic songs, and was very famous, but step by step she started to sing romantic songs with indirect & direct fulfillment of the Emotional or Sexual needs of men, and after less than 10 years, 99% of her work was in this bad category for over 40 more years, May God forgive her and have mercy on her.
So bottom-line, Everything in this life Has a varying spectrum with a balance between good and evil percentages, and So the honest person should consume the Entertainment product which has more Goodness and less evilness, and always ask God for Mercy & Forgiveness.
May God have mercy and forgiveness for us all.