discussing this with you has not improved my life but actually annoyed me.
Sorry about that, but how is anything I said annoying to you? Were you annoyed that I rejected your claim that science has benefited you? I still do. What's annoying there?
I never talked about benefits I said improve my life.
Perhaps this is out point of departure. I consider that which improves your life to be a benefit for you. I don't know why you think otherwise, but perhaps it would be more productive for you to explain yourself clearly that to do otherwise and get annoyed.
Cars were already invented before I was born just like oxygen was present before I was born, the polio vaccination was created before I was born just like water was here to drink. Yes they are all benefits but they don't improve the life I have.
How is that relevant? The claim wasn't that only the new science since your birth has benefited you. You seem to be rationalizing. First, science doesn't benefit you,it only improves your life. Now, science doesn't benefit you because some of it predates your birth.
Also your inventions of technological also have detriments that make human lives worse off.
Now you are claiming that science hasn't ever benefited you because it has harmed some other lives, maybe even yours. That still doesn't negate the idea that you have also benefited from science, or as you say, has your life improved.
I would say the benefits do not over value the negatives.
Even if that were true, you haven't made the case that the harm done to your life by science outweighs the benefits, just the claim.
Well, this may annoy you as well (that's up to you, not me), but what I see is a guy who has accepted the idea that science is not beneficial on faith, and now sees that due to a faith-based confirmation bias that filters out all benefits from science for him while exaggerating any downside. You'll say anything in defense of that position whatever the contradictory evidence may be. That's how confirmation biases work. That's what they do. That's what they're for - to protect a cherished belief from contradictory evidence.
I learned the most about this cognitive bias from a geologist and former young earth creationist (YEC) Glenn Morton, now an old earth creationist (OEC), who described his own experience of being encased in such a confirmation bias and eventually tunneling out. He anthropomorphizes the experience by equating being encased in this filter to a demon like Maxwell's demon, one which sits at the portal to his mind and decides what will enter and what will not. This is from Morton:
"When I was a YEC, I had a demon that did similar things for me that Maxwell's demon did for thermodynamics. Morton's demon was a demon who sat at the gate of my sensory input apparatus and if and when he saw supportive evidence coming in, he opened the gate. But if he saw contradictory data coming in, he closed the gate. In this way, the demon allowed me to believe that I was right and to avoid any nasty contradictory data.
"The demon makes its victim feel very comfortable as there is no contradictory data in view ... one thing that those unaffected by this demon don't understand is that the victim is not lying about the data. The demon only lets his victim see what the demon wants him to see and thus the victim, whose sensory input is horribly askew, feels that he is totally honest about the data."
I find Morton sincere and credible. If he says that he was blind to this process, as counterintuitive as that claim may seem, I believe him. And this phenomenon is no doubt why you can't see what seems obvious to me. I also don't think that you're lying, just wrong.
Don't get annoyed. This is an opinion sincerely believed and constructively offered. An emotional reaction is not helpful to either of us. You don't see me getting annoyed that you disagree with me.
This isn't personal. It's the way debate proceeds in academic venues like university classrooms, refereed journals, formal debates, and courtrooms. People present arguments and counterarguments working toward a mutual understanding and consensus where possible.