So I recently discovered I'm the only one on this website that defends Catholicism, so I figured I could start a thread on Catholicism we all could appreciate.
State your primary reason not to be Catholic. Last person to post wins
I personally think that there is too much focus on liturgical rubrics,Dogma, and legalism rather than focusing on Simplicity , humility, modesty, and charity. (as seen in St. Francis of Assisi , Mother Teresa, and Jesus Christ.)
I put this in my point of view. However, in general, these are reasons among others why a peson would not be Catholic. Depends on the person and how they define what it means to have a relationship with Christ.
I think that first comment is a huge generalization (or if its true, I missed it..no pun). I defend Catholicism here and was Catholic (and still am according to the Church) for four years so far...and two years as a practicing one. I wasnt indoctrinated so I never left the religion; I came in as an adult....
so...
Primary reasons not to be Catholic?
It depends on how someone wants to have a relationship with Christ. If I disregard the history of the Church (which I feel history and the past has a huge influence on my worship and practice today), Id say that the sacraments--physically going through them not just in the mind and heart is a life changing thing.
One reason is that it can be too dogmatic from some perspectives. For example, the Church specificallyl says it is not a Sola Scriptura denomination. So, things like marriage between two people are shuned. There are highly descrimination since the first slave to the last human being who wants to be married in a Church in his or her own faith to her call to be a priest yet denied too because of gender.
Another reason I am not a practicing Catholic is because it made me felt like I sined more than I actually did. Right now, I only remember sinning once or twice in the past couple of days. In the Church, it felt like I needed to go to confesion almost everyday to cleans what I felt was a sin. Then going to confession, the priest says "no. thats not a sin...but you understand the consequences if said was done".
Another reason Im not Catholic is because I believe the past defines me and my present life. So, all the killing sanctioned by the Church and the sacrifice (regardles the reason and source) in the NT to taking lives in the old just doesnt add up to who I am as someone who values life. I dont see blood as a needed sacrifice for sins thats like the mofia saying "and eye for an eye" to put it harshly. Its not something I can reconcile with.
Much of my family are against the Catholic Church and I always wanted to know why. Now I know. The Church has brought us through slavery defining it between color of skin rather than human trade. The Church has a political play on granting people land that dont belong to them. Before the Church and Governent separated (and even now) Church has an influence on what our laws are.
There is no respect of a diversity of religious thought within the Catholic Church. I go to Easter Vigil every year and reminded that only Catholics can take communion. Think of it If Catholic means universal and christian and scripture doesnt provide prerequisites to be saved, how can a Church deny a Christian the right to receive Jesus in the Eucharist
Also, get this. I been through the year RCIA program and did not know about the sacraments through the training only through the sacraments. You can learn about the sacraments online without the year training. The point is to take it.
All Christians take the sacraments. Unfortunately, like JW and every other denomination, they arent in accord with everyone else's right way of taking it.
That pulled me away from Catholicism: discord among Christians.
I would not be Catholic if I see discord in the Church. If I see only half of the universal christians taking communion and the other half not, I see no brotherhood.
I would not be Catholic if I knew my very identity is judged not by the Bible but the Church that nutured me in faith.
I would not be Catholic (and any other religion for that matter) that has any killing in the name of their denomination, school, or practice. I value life to much to worship a
voluntary sacrificial offering.
I would not be Catholic because the Church Still pushes its morals on those who disbelief them. I live in a Catholic owned residential home, mostly Catholic residents, and I work in a Catholic owned organization. My whole world is around Christians and immediate environment around Catholics.
That, in itself, is not a bad thing until you get notes on your doors saying that you should go to confession, arguments that I will go to hell, and surpressing who I am based on the majority and watching the minority religious needing to hide their stores and businesses so the church wont
again make them go out of business, picket their stores, etc.
There are many reasons not to be Catholic
Thats if people care about the things I just mentioned. I have a friend who is blind to a lot of the bad things the Church has done but is more focused on her devotion to Christ, participation in the sacraments, and prayer and relationships with family and her future husband. So, if its that type of devotion and centered around relationship within a community, the Catholic Church is beautiful.
Political wise, that is the biggest reason I would not be Catholic.