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Why The Christian's Laughter Is Full Of Pain

Ozzie

Well-Known Member
Glaswegian said:
I'm quite aware of what rationality is, Ozzie. And that is why I know that Christian belief has nothing to do with rationality. Christian belief is wholly irrational in nature.

Allow me to re-state something I said to another member of this forum. Viz...

"I'm sure you would agree that debate should proceed on the basis of rational argument. Yes? But this is precisely why debating with religious believers is always problematic. You see, religious believers haven't reasoned themselves into their beliefs. Religious beliefs are not based on reason. They are based on emotions, feelings, sentiments, needs, wishes, yearnings, longings, etc.. Trying to reason with these things is like trying to reason with toothache or hunger or sexual desire. Such things are not amenable to reason."

Are you a scientist by any chance, Ozzie?
Would you agree that learning is amenable to reason?

I have lab bench experience mapping learning in rats on to mathematical models of learning, an interesting if inexact scientific enterprise.

That experience taught me that theories rarely map directly onto subjective phenomena, rather science has a tendency to cluster phenomena together in order to verify theory. Believe too strongly in the theory and the results will contain bias.

Theory is a predictive prism for interpreting phenomena, as is God. Both address a human need to predict the future, and express a human capacity to do that to some extent if only imperfectly.

Learning and God are alike in that they are only available to reason indirectly, by hypothesis. Demanding a strict rational or scientific proof of these phenomena is a useless exercise. One can only exact truly objective proof in learning studies (through examining brain slides and so forth) by killing the subject. Similarly your criticism of religious thought as irrational kills the subject, and the discussion if you demand objective proof.

But your critique is a no-brainer. The most difficult part in science is to develop methodology that can test theory applied to the phenomena in question. Do you know of any methodology to test your theory that religious thought is irrational, and which might therefore render your theory falsifiable? Without that methodology, God as a predictive theory should stand.

Like learning, religious thought has to be studied in vivo by observation. Against the theory you have of religious thought as irrational, behaviour motivated by religious thought seems wholly systematic, organised and rational. You are not being a good scientist by reaching into your own theory of the way religious minds work in order to interpret the belief/mental states of others. You betray your own rationality by citing subjective criteria in support of your theory.

Oz
 
sojourner said:
Using that logic, we could say that "the Jews killed our Messiah," too.

Could say? That is, indeed, what Christians have said about Jews across the centuries - "The Jews killed our Messiah".

Maybe you will recall the following words of mine from another post, sojourner:

The myth that Jesus was God incarnate has been used over the last two millennia as the fundamental justification for anti-Semitism in the Christian world. Why? Because according to the New Testament the Jews did not just kill a man. No. They committed the worst crime imaginable. They killed God in the form of Jesus. Because they were held to be collectively responsible for this most awful and heinous of acts, the Jewish people have been systematically used by Christians throughout the ages as the scapegoat par excellence on which they could project and discharge their accumulated feelings of guilt, inadequacy and self-loathing. As 'the murderers of Christ' no punishment has been deemed too terrible for Jews by Christians historically.

Yes, sojourner, the road to the Nazi death camps leads all the way back to the New Testament. In fact, all the way back into the mouth of Jesus himself when he said to the Jews:

'If God were your father, you would love me...Your father is the Devil and you choose to carry out your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning...' (John 8: 42-44)

The omniscient God who was allegedly in Jesus must have known that this condemnation was destined to be used by Christians not only as a rationale but as an ideological basis for vilifying, oppressing and murdering Jews over many centuries. And yet knowing this He still allowed those dreadful words to pass from Jesus's lips.

I know, sojourner: it's strange.
 

Lindsey-Loo

Steel Magnolia
Could say? That is, indeed, what Christians have said about Jews across the centuries - "The Jews killed our Messiah".

As far as I'm concerned, I killed my Messiah...I have never met a Christian that said the words "The Jews killed our Messiah"

Honestly, what is all of this nit-picking leading up to, exactly?
 
doppelgänger said:
Perspective is the underlying problem in any breakdown in communication. Words don't now have and never have had objective meanings. So perspective is everything. Aside from that, I can't imagine how you could engage in a dialogue with anyone, which of course, defeats the purpose in communicating in the first place doesn't it?





Um . .. this perhaps? . . . "That would only distract you from my posts. It is important that you approach my posts in the most objective fashion possible."

:rolleyes:





It depends on the feeling. Thanks for answering the question, though. So you are okay with polytheistic religions?



Define it however you'd like. I'll go with your definition. :)

Please bear with me, doppelganger. I'll reply to the above post of yours anon....
 
Anade said:
As far as I'm concerned, I killed my Messiah...I have never met a Christian that said the words "The Jews killed our Messiah"

Honestly, what is all of this nit-picking leading up to, exactly?

As far as I'm concerned, Anade, you're the only person I've come across who has ever referred to a discussion about anti-Semitism and the murder of six million Jews as 'nit-picking'.
 
Glaswegian said:
As far as I'm concerned, Anade, you're the only person I've come across who has ever referred to a discussion about anti-Semitism and the murder of six million Jews as 'nit-picking'.
The Holocaust was not caused by Christians, so I'm not sure what you're blaming Christianity for.
 

lilithu

The Devil's Advocate
Glaswegian said:
As far as I'm concerned, Anade, you're the only person I've come across who has ever referred to a discussion about anti-Semitism and the murder of six million Jews as 'nit-picking'.
Unless you are Jewish, please do not exploit the misery and death of six million people in order to pursue your personal anti-Christian agenda.

It's vile.
 

Lindsey-Loo

Steel Magnolia
As far as I'm concerned, Anade, you're the only person I've come across who has ever referred to a discussion about anti-Semitism and the murder of six million Jews as 'nit-picking'.

I'm just saying it's not leading to anything, talking about regretful events that happened in the past. Christianity, Judaism, Islam, and many other religions have all done bad things to one another in the past, but arguing over it is a lost cause and will not change anything. So what's the point? Please excuse my momentary lapse of language...
 

Booko

Deviled Hen
Anade said:
I'm just saying it's not leading to anything, talking about regretful events that happened in the past. Christianity, Judaism, Islam, and many other religions have all done bad things to one another in the past, but arguing over it is a lost cause and will not change anything. So what's the point? Please excuse my momentary lapse of language...

Personally, I think we'd all be better off just starting a Christian joke thread. It would be far more useful than continuing with this one. :)

Maybe we could put it somewhere where us non-Christians could come join y'all too. :)
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
lilithu said:
Unless you are Jewish, please do not exploit the misery and death of six million people in order to pursue your personal anti-Christian agenda.

It's vile.

Even if he were Jewish, it would be vile to exploit the misery and death of six million people to pursue an anti-Christian agenda.

By the way, the Christian religion certainly promoted and facilitated anti-semitism. I wouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater though.
 

Stairs In My House

I am protected.
Sunstone said:
By the way, the Christian religion certainly promoted and facilitated anti-semitism. I wouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater though.
Funny, I thought only people could facilitate and promote things. Or are you saying anti-semitism can be found in the scripture?
 
Ozzie said:
Would you agree that learning is amenable to reason?

I have lab bench experience mapping learning in rats on to mathematical models of learning, an interesting if inexact scientific enterprise.

That experience taught me that theories rarely map directly onto subjective phenomena, rather science has a tendency to cluster phenomena together in order to verify theory. Believe too strongly in the theory and the results will contain bias.

Theory is a predictive prism for interpreting phenomena, as is God. Both address a human need to predict the future, and express a human capacity to do that to some extent if only imperfectly.

Learning and God are alike in that they are only available to reason indirectly, by hypothesis. Demanding a strict rational or scientific proof of these phenomena is a useless exercise. One can only exact truly objective proof in learning studies (through examining brain slides and so forth) by killing the subject. Similarly your criticism of religious thought as irrational kills the subject, and the discussion if you demand objective proof.

But your critique is a no-brainer. The most difficult part in science is to develop methodology that can test theory applied to the phenomena in question. Do you know of any methodology to test your theory that religious thought is irrational, and which might therefore render your theory falsifiable? Without that methodology, God as a predictive theory should stand.

Like learning, religious thought has to be studied in vivo by observation. Against the theory you have of religious thought as irrational, behaviour motivated by religious thought seems wholly systematic, organised and rational. You are not being a good scientist by reaching into your own theory of the way religious minds work in order to interpret the belief/mental states of others. You betray your own rationality by citing subjective criteria in support of your theory.

Oz

Since you have some 'lab bench experience mapping learning in rats', Ozzie, please allow me the honour of addressing you as a scientist.

I'm sure you won't mind too much if I do that. No?

Very well then. Here goes....

As a scientist, Ozzie, you are aware that Science is concerned with the investigation of the physical world, the world of phenomena - the world of appearance, if you like - and that in consequence any knowledge it provides us with is wholly empirical in nature. Science does not seek to provide us with knowledge of a metaphysical realm which might lie beyond the world of appearance since by definition such a realm falls outside the scope of its enquiry. Therefore, questions concerning metaphysical stuff like 'God' or the 'soul' or 'transcendent reality' or 'the meaning of the universe' (i.e., why it is as it is) are of no interest to Science because these things literally do not touch upon Science.

You, as a scientist, are aware of this. You are aware that the human mind can only have knowledge of the physical world - the world delivered to us by the senses - and none whatsoever of a meta-physical one. This is because the mind - being organized the way that it is - has no access to non-physical things which supposedly exist outside of sensory experience. Thus, if anything metaphysical can be said to exist at all then it necessarily remains a Great Unknown to us. Now, given the fact that you know that metaphysical claims about the universe cannot be established one way or the other then you must concede that when the religious person claims, for example, that there is a 'God' he has no way of knowing this and that he makes this claim not on the basis of reason but on the basis of something else. Now, what might that be? Maybe he makes this claim on the basis of intuition or maybe simply because it makes him feel better - in the same way that it makes some children feel better believing they have an imaginary play-friend or that fairies live at the bottom of their garden...Who knows?

I dare say that you are aware that Immanuel Kant demonstrated over two centuries ago in the Critique of Pure Reason that human beings have no rational basis for believing metaphysical claims since the faculty of human reason has application only to phenomena or the things of this world and not to noumena or the things-in-themselves which supposedly constitute the mysterious metaphysical world. (Incidentally, this is why the Germans call Kant Der Alleszermalmer - 'the all-destroyer' - because he demolished the rational foundation of metaphysics in its entirety. And why theologians ever since have wanted to crucify him.) Therefore, it shouldn't surprise you, Ozzie, that the religious person is devoid of any reason for his belief that there is a 'God', or that the universe is 'divine', or that there are 'angels' and 'demons', or that he has a 'soul', or that he will meet up again with his dear departed ones in 'the life to come', etc.. But, as Nietzsche once said, why should the religious person bother about that as long as he doesn't need to.
 

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
Stairs In My House said:
Funny, I thought only people could facilitate and promote things. Or are you saying anti-semitism can be found in the scripture?

Sure. Is it Matthew or some other gospel that has the Jews exclaiming, "Let his death [i.e. Jesus's cruxification] be on our heads and the heads of our children"? I can't recall offhand the verse, but the verse is there somewhere. And the verse has been interpreted for centuries as giving licence to anti-semitism.

There are more examples than that, but that one strikes me as fairly direct.
 

athanasius

Well-Known Member
Glaswegian said:
When you hear the laughter of some Christians do you ever wonder why there is so much pain in it? Why it often has the effect of causing tiny alarm bells to start ringing inside of you? Why it can make you solemn and reflective in the way that a great tragedy does? Why you feel a little saddened in its aftermath? Perhaps on witnessing this kind of laughter issuing from the Christian's mouth you have been so shocked by it that you have turned away from him, lowered your head and whispered to yourself: 'My God. The pain in that laughter! Doesn't he realise how awful it sounds?'

No reasonable person would blame you for wondering how the Christian can be blind to the pain in his own laughter given that the pain which fills it is so stark in nature, so blatant and unmistakable, so flagrant as to be nakedly obvious. This is why even though one finds the Christian's laughter excruciating one cannot help but be intrigued by it at the same time. This laughter is so anguished in tone, so forced in its delivery, so hysterical in its outburst that one involuntarily shrinks from it as if from an exploding boil. One feels acutely embarrassed for the Christian on hearing his pained and desperate laughter. Indeed, one is even moved at times to pity him because of it. That said, the pain in the Christian's laughter is so uniquely awful that it demands an explanation.

The reason why the pain in the Christian's laughter creates such a strong impression on rational individuals, and makes them prick up their ears whenever they hear it, is because it reveals more about the Christian's inner being in an instant than a very large book could ever do. What this laughter reveals about the Christian in such an immediate and striking way is that he is an individual who suffers greatly from himself: more precisely, that he is someone to whom something terrible has been done, something shameful, and that the person who has done this terrible and shameful thing to him is none other than himself. How do we know this? Because the Christian's laughter is a laughter which resonates with deep and unrelenting guilt. It is the tortured laughter born of an individual who cannot live with himself, an individual who recognises at some level of his being that he is disgraceful and contemptible, an object to be despised. This is why on hearing it the man of finer feelings and good taste immediately averts his eyes from its source.

The terrible and shameful thing which the Christian has done to himself inwardly, and which fills his laughter with so much pain, is that he has murdered his freedom and integrity for the sake of his religion. The Christian is only too willing to perform this deplorable act of self-sabotage because he is a weakling who is terrified of assuming responsibility and control over his own life and decisions. Rather than determining for himself what kind of person he will become and how he will live, he pretends that a 'Divine Being' exists external to himself so that he can abandon himself to its will and authority. Thus, instead of taking charge of his own existence, instead of being the author of his own destiny, the Christian chooses to adopt an infantile orientation to life by clinging abjectly to his religion, by clinging to a childish delusion, by clinging to the apron strings of 'God'. As a consequence of choosing to be un-free and inauthentic in this way, by choosing to remain locked in a state of permanent infancy, the Christian allows his own existential possibilities to wither and die: so much so, that long before his body expires he becomes something false and vacuous, a shell of a man, a desiccated nonentity, the ghost of what might have been.

The pain in the Christian's laughter, then, should be understood as summarising all the anguish and guilt he feels at having betrayed himself, all the hurt and rage he feels at having neglected and disowned his true potentialities and goals, all his secret shame at having made a travesty of his life. His pained laughter announces to the whole world in a direct and emphatic way that he is a cowardly wretch who dreads his own freedom, that he is unnerved by the innumerable possibilities of existence, that he is so afraid of thinking and acting for himself that he is willing to forgo the possibility of his own self-creation.

Given that what the Christian thinks, says and does are done in almost total compliance and conformity with the directives of a fantasised power which lies outside himself (viz. 'God') this means that he is not really in his 'own' thoughts, not really in his 'own' words, not really in his 'own' actions. This accounts for why he is prey to recurring feelings of emptiness, depersonalization and unreality - and the horrible suspicion that he is merely going through the motions of being alive. The Christian is necessarily divorced from his whole inner life and experience because what he thinks, says and does are informed by, or are done in accordance with, a 'Divine Power' which is perceived as other than himself. The Christian, in effect, exists only in absentia for he is a person who has absconded from himself. His self-being is really a form of death-in-life.

Having considered the above it is hardly surprising, then, that the pain in the Christian's laughter leaves the rational person who has the misfortune to hear it somewhat depressed. For it signifies a human tragedy - the tragedy of an individual who, out of weakness and fear, has failed to achieve an authentic mode of being, who has never grown up, and who has wantonly sacrificed two of the most precious things a human being can possess: viz. his own freedom and integrity.

Regards

James


Sorry But what in Gods name are you even talking about? Weird? Kooky!
 

shema

Active Member
Im a Christian and When I laugh, it is usually because something is funny.
The Bible says laughter does the heart good like a medicine.
 

lilithu

The Devil's Advocate
Sunstone said:
Even if he were Jewish, it would be vile to exploit the misery and death of six million people to pursue an anti-Christian agenda.
Yes, but if he were Jewish I'd give him the benefit of the doubt that his words were motivated by personal pain, and not the cynical exploitation of someone else's grief to suit his purposes.


Sunstone said:
By the way, the Christian religion certainly promoted and facilitated anti-semitism. I wouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater though.
The Christian religion was used to justify and foment anti-semitism, yes. Rampantly. No doubt that Christianity continues to be used to justify different types of bigotry even today. But one cannot blame all Christians for what others did or do, just because they identify themselves by the same name of "Christian." For every Hitler there is a Dietrich Bonhoeffer. This seems to me such an obvious truth that it shouldn't need to be said, and yet it still needs to be said.
 

Booko

Deviled Hen
Stairs In My House said:
Funny, I thought only people could facilitate and promote things. Or are you saying anti-semitism can be found in the scripture?

More like there are verses when ripped out of context, can be used to justify it. It's been known to happen.

Not that I think it's justified to blame the text for the existence poor readers.
 
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