I see it as she was drawing attention to something that is lying just beneath the surface that many don't seem to want to acknowledge or face.
As far as the tongue being an instrument of the Devil:
It's just a physical (flesh) conception, where she doesn't even know what lies beneath the surface. Homosexuality (Homo being human) is flesh. Spirit has no physical gender.
A god being "gay" makes no sense. Maybe she is trying to say Allah promotes humans to be gay. Makes sense since many who follow what Allah instructs murder and rape.
In my view, God has no name. (Secret John). Once you give it a name, you give it a definition. She merely takes a defined god and gave it her definition. Same with Jehovah. Give it a name, and you bring it down to human level.
Once God (the Father) is defined (like the catholic ideology claims) men choose to accept or deny through that definition. Jesus taught that the Father (God) was too far above our mealy understanding, which is why he sent a small part of himself (in son) that we could understand.
I have studied for 45 years. I am in awe off what little I can understand of God. Allah is just another concept achieved by man, and deals much in the ways of flesh and little in spiritual knowledge.
She uses flesh to define spirit. She is just ignorant of spirit, IMO.
Just my view.