And I believe I answered yours for you.
Me a little Dumb!
Can you please explain it in
Universal Kindergarten Terms?
Self honesty is the most effective and least popular option.
Oh! Me!
I am CONFUSED!
Should I CLARIFY it with my High School SCIENCE Teacher?
Avoidance actually is the problem.
Me! Again DUMB!
Pls explain WHAT I should AVOID
(other than my Marlboro)
Sure: what you should avoid is avoidance of your voids. Of course, in order to avoid avoiding your voids you would have to know what it is your not avoiding, so it helps to have a few useful guidelines that will enable you to identify these voids so that you can avoid avoiding them:
---A void is something with nothing in it that takes up space just the same. So if you see something taking up space with nothing, it's probably a void.
---Since space with nothing in it creates a vacuum, and since vacuums tend to suck things into them, this is another way by which we can identify voids: voids suck.
Since nature arbors a vacuum, and since we don't generally feel all that great about them either, many people will attempt to avoid their voids by filling their personal space up with stuff, hoping that the clutter will seep into their voids and silently fill them up so that, rather than space filled with nothing they will become spaces filled with something and thus cease to be voids. Problem is, since voids are filled with nothingness, anything you throw into a void will lose it's somethingness and take on the characteristics of nothingness and since there is now more nothingness in the void then there was before all you wind up with is a bigger void and a vacuum that sucks even harder.
---So: if you see something that turns somethings into nothings, safe bet your looking at a void.
Other people will attempt to fill up their voids with other voids, hoping that the two voids will void each other out, thus allowing them to have successfully avoided having to avoid avoiding their voids. Example: many people will attempt to fill up their voids with philosophies they don't understand or beliefs that they don't really believe, thus creating little voids for themselves, ie., things that take up spaces by filling them up with nothings.
Problem is that voids, tricky little devils that they are, don't respond to other voids by voiding them but rather expand their nothingness to accommodate all this new nothingness and thus, once again, all you wind up with is a bigger void and one that sucks even harder.
--So, if you see something that attempts to turn nothings into somethings but only manages to create an even bigger nothing, it's a void.
Hope this helps.