Guesswork, yes. The biblical 'point' is 'Husbands, ... be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner' 1 Pe 3:7 NIV. And of course all knowledgeable Christians are familiar with Proverbs chapter 31.
That may come off as condescending rhetoric, but it appears you've already heard about it from others here!
It might. Otoh, women might realise that modern culture is flattering them in order to deceive. It may occur to them that those who oppose the church wish to encourage Christians to appoint the weaker sex to direct the stronger, and thereby to overcome the church; and women might realise the ploy of Satan and resist him.
Thanks for reminding me! The excuse in 1Timothy 2:11 for excluding women from leadership and speaking to the congregation is that Eve was deceived (nevermind that Adam didn't appear to be rational enough to follow the previous order from Yahweh) and Eve's descendents are likewise too feebleminded to resist temptation from the devil. The good news is that she can be saved through childbearing....is that good news?
Ah yes, rules. 'Do not murder', 'Do not steal', 'Do not commit adultery', and other Biblical rules have been found downright irksome strictures by many who have called themselves Christians. So, when a 'bishop' merely pinches a young lady''s bottom, why bother about it? When a vicar tells blue jokes at dinners, where is the point of making a fuss? When clerics die of AIDS because they think that seminaries are for close physical encounters, why, that's not as bad as burning 'fundamentalists' at the stake.
According to authoritiarians, without clearly defined rules and harsh punishments for violating those rules, everyone will run around killing, stealing and screwing around. And authoritarians, who tend to be conservative and hate change of all sorts, are comfortable with living under these conditions. But, if you read your Gospels, the point behind most of Jesus's condemnations of the Pharisees is that being able to follow a rigid code of laws is not evidence of real virtue. And he was trying to move his followers towards a new standard - Virtue Ethics, where Christians would have "the Law written in their hearts."
Of course, many men in apostate congregations deliberately make themselves look inadequate so that women will appear to shine, as they do in the rest of the worldly world. The curious thing is that their congregations often do not like women in charge, and prefer men to order their estate.
I guess we can at least give you credit for being unapologetic about patriarchy. Most conservatives who follow this line try to dodge and shift around with counter-claims or attempts to divert attention.
But not on biblical accuracy. Like modern 'scholars'.
If they have, why don't you reproduce their wisdom here? We haven't seen it yet, anyway.
While I have the time, I'll point to the key reason why Biblical scholars started scrutinizing many of these misogynistic messages in the Bible in the first place: they are usually off topic in the chapters where they appear -- giving the appearance that they were additions by later scribes...remember there were no printing presses back when these books were written. They were all copied by hand, and there are no original Bible manuscripts in existence today. The earliest fragments are of 2nd century scrolls, complete manuscripts only go back to much later dates.
Anyway, let's look at 1 Corinthians 14, where most of the narrative is about praying, speaking in tongues, interpreting revelations, until there are two verses telling women to stay silent, and then it's back to the original topic in the final two verses:
I Corinthians 14 v.26-40
How is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying.
27If any man speak in an
unknown tongue,
let it be by two, or at the most
by three, and
that by course; and let one interpret.
28But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God.
29Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge.
30If
any thing be revealed to another that sitteth by, let the first hold his peace.
31For ye may all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be comforted.
32And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets.
33For God is not
the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.
34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but
they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
35And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
36What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only?
37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.
38But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.
39Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues.
40Let all things be done decently and in order.