James 2:
8 If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing right.
9 But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers.
10 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.
This is important because I don't believe any sin is greater than another. Sin is sin:
11 For he who said, “You shall not commit adultery,”
b also said, “You shall not murder.”
c If you do not commit adultery but do commit murder, you have become a lawbreaker.
The law is not a happy meal where you pick and choose what suits you. "Do not murder"--that's sounds good, I don't want to be murdered. "Do not steal"--that's good too because I don't want my house broken into. "Do not commit adultery." Ah, dang, that just completely interferes with my love life. How am I suppose to sleep with John, and Tim and Mark, and Justin? Ah! I know. I'll just claim grace and God will forgive me and understand. He knows what raging hormones do to a person.
There is not partiality when it comes to sin.
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I noticed people cry, "You're judging me" when you say something they don't want to hear. If I tell someone that their sexual immorality and God is watching them and hey, shape up because God's made it known that the sexually immoral will not inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9). Suddenly, I'm judging them because I've reminded them of what God said. But if I tell someone, hey your going to fast through a school zone and the police are watching, slow down before you get a ticket, they don't consider me to be making judgments on their driving, rather protecting them from a mark on their license and a ticket they'll have to pay and a court appearance they'll have to make. They're thankful then that I pointed out their mistake and helped them avoid punishment. But telling someone fornication is wrong, well, I'm judgmental. Why? Because most of the time the person
wants to fornicate and they don't want God's commandments to crimp their style. Blaming the person who says it's wrong as being judgmental, allows the sinner to justify their evil deed by making the other person look like the one in the wrong.
True judgement is proclaiming someone they're doomed for the lake of fire, or determining that someone is not worthy of salvation, love, etc. A lot of times when people "judge", it's not the judgment that Christ was talking about.
James 5:19 "My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back,
20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins."
Christ didn't come to judge the world, he came to warn us of the error of our ways. "Repent for the Kingdom is at hand". When Christ returns then He will exercise His authority and punish/disciple according the world according to the law of God, but punishing the world was not his job when he came the first time. That's why the adulteress wasn't stoned, but remember, Christ told her to sin no more. He didn't say, you're forgiven, continue on.
Next time someone "judges" you, consider greatly whether they're judging (condemning your soul) or admonishing your behavior because they want to bring a sinner back from the error of his/her way. Because that's not judgment, that's love.