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Your Experiences With Extremism

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
We experience it each day of our life. We killed six terrorists in the last two days. The latest report says that three terrorists have entered India from Pakistan.

You said personal experience. Yes. By Sikhs during the Sikh separatist movement. By some Muslim clerics who were abusing Hindu Gods.
 
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ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
What do you mean by "church speak"? I've been to/through the southern states a bunch of times. Perhaps a few odd looks due to "yankee" accent but mostly friendly. Of course I'm sure it would've been a different story had religion or politics been brought up in discussion.

Once each sentence you had to mention lord, jesus, alleluia, amen etc

Not natural for me so it felt strange, threatening.
 

Windwalker

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Still upside down. If I left Islam, I would go to hell, I believe.
Why do you say what I said was upside down? You just affirmed exactly what I said. I said everyone understands what that threat of punishment for leaving the group is, particularly the part where God will punish you for you making a personal choice outside the religion. You just affirmed you understand it. I'd say what I said is exactly level, not upside down.

I love Islam. It is the most important thing to me in this world. There is no excuse that could ever make sense when someone is leaving Islam.
It's a common human trait that assume that if we have found something that brings meaning into our lives, everyone else will have that same experience, and if they don't, there is something wrong with them. But for others, those for instance who may have found that your religion was not the right fit for them, they likewise could assume you are in error because they found the truth elsewhere, projecting what they now find more meaningful to them, should also be the truth for you. It's the same trait, or flipside of the same coin.

I think there are plenty of valid reasons why some may choose to leave their parent religion, or their adopted religion for that matter. Have you ever talked with an ex-Muslim and asked sincerely why they chose a different path? Or do you, like many do, just assume they are lost and damned because they don't accept what you accept? This was the point I made in my original post. That's not upside down, that's an accurate statement.

There is a punishment for apostasy, but its execution is rather complicated and most people don't get that. If someone wants to leave Islam, Islamic law is the least of their problems.
And this is what I meant by the psychological threats for thinking outside the group. This is what fundamentalism does that is damaging. "Love God, or else....", is not an invitation to something that may benefit you. It's about power and control over you.

That's not freedom. It's bondage to fear. As I said, it's fear-based. You are affirming everything I said.
 

Mock Turtle

Oh my, did I say that!
Premium Member
Fortunately I have had no direct dealings with anything considered extremism, apart from travelling abroad to find some forms of transport are provided with an armed escort because of separatists and such. I limit my beliefs to those that tend not to harm others, will likely improve their lives, and hopefully give a better life for all rather than just a few, but I'll not insist on preaching such. When I was growing up there was hardly any extremism to bother most of us, so that fortunately it didn't even enter our lives.
 

tayla

My dog's name is Tayla
I am wondering what is your experience with extremist people?
Having both been one and interacted with many having very strongly held dogmatic opinions, which I often questioned: my conclusion is that we are better off using critical thinking based on provable facts in forming our opinions and beliefs.

There was a lot of social pressures and rejection of people having different views.
 

firedragon

Veteran Member
Looking through some of the very interesting discussions that went on while I slept, I noticed mention here and there of extremism(or fundamentalism, radicalism, etc), and perceived threats from these worldviews from others. It perplexed me a bit, because all in all, I can say I have very few experiences in my own personal life with this kind of religious(or anti-religious) reaction. In all honesty, I can count on one hand the number of times I've felt 'threatened', and those were more in a mental, rather than physical sense.

So, now I am curious. We are all from different places, different cultures, etc, and I am wondering what is your experience with extremist people?

I am only asking for personal experiences here, not things you've heard on the news, or things people have posted on social media, or some other platform. Just real, face to face interactions. Are you being, or have you been threatened?

I have an experience with extremism. I have met a group of people from Nepal who are extremely isolated and religious always meditating. Nice bunch of men, but extreme in their faith and had left society in their path. Completely isolated.
 

GardenLady

Active Member
Not threatened, but I grew up Catholic south of the Mason Dixon line. As a result I encountered some people who had strong anti-Catholic sentiment and some bizarre notions. When a Methodist college friend got engaged to an Episcopalian, her parents’ reaction was horror. “Those people are practically Catholic.”

A different college friend who became a Oneness Pentecostal was rabid to save me from the beast who sits on 7 hills and is the mother of whores. She utterly rejected the idea that referred to the Roman Empire. And of course, to her church, the Pope was the anti-Christ.
 
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