How is it relativistic to say, "Theft for greed is absolutely wrong, theft for starvation is absolutely permissible?"
Which is your moral absolute here - theft is OK, or theft is not OK? Pick one, and adhere to it absolutely, that is, without exception.
Then go back to your question.
But of interest, I don't think I could perform the rape, I think the 1,000 people would have to die. I just don't have it in me. Christ is in me.
Yeah, blessed are the meek.
So I preach the gospel and deserve to be attacked?
It's not about deserved. It's about whether you are contributing to the physical hostile reactions you receive.
My experience is that you have to make somebody pretty angry to have them spit at your or slap a book out of your hand. I don't think either have ever happened to me even in my street corner proselytizing days. Why you?
Stuff like, "I see you've been through some tough, stuff, man, Jesus loves you and if I can lay down my life for you to demonstrate that, I surely would [etc. for five minutes then spat upon or had objects hurled at me]."
This went on for five minutes? You weren't spat at immediately?
You were obviously insensitive to the rising anger in your subject. By your account, you went on for five minutes with somebody that obviously wasn't interested and eventually exploded. Part of your job as a salesman of any kind is to take the pulse of the situation and understand how you are being perceived.
Preaching to adults as if they're adults with kindness, emphasizing the love of Jesus, not mentioning condemnation or Hell at all, showing with verbals and nonverbals care and attention...
Do you think you project love here?
And yes, you condemn.
Also, I noticed that your answer to me at post
983 completely ignored the last half of my post to you regarding your apparent lack of insight about the image you project.
If you didn't care about that topic when answering that post, what reason is there to think that you ever consider it? You were told that you come across as condescending at multiple levels, but had no apparent interest in the topic, and seem unaware even after being told.
Perhaps that's part of the issue - dealing with feedback and assorted cues in social situations
One form of insight can be thought of as effectively projecting oneself outside of his body, turning around, and looking back in at oneself to assess how he appears to others. A lot of people don't do this well, and they get negative reactions from others that seem to come out of the blue and catch them off guard, unaware of how they contributed to the problem. Could that be you?
Would you care if any of the things I posted to you were correct? Suppose I was right about your lack of insight about how others perceive you? Would you want to know that? It doesn't seem like it.
But shouldn't you given what matters most to you and how much time you spend at it? This is potentially constructive criticism, but only if you take it as such and consider it impartially and dispassionately.