I have to say, I’m just learning a lot of stuff about how to post things. I was thrilled just making a discussion thread on my own . Didn’t work out like I hoped, my exact wording was wrong, lol.
One aspect is that discussion boards like this don't convey the same information as would be given in a face to face encounter. We don't see the small smile showing humor, or the wink showing understanding. That makes it *much* easier to mistake intentions and misread what people are trying to say.
Add to that the different abilities on putting ideas into writing and we get some of the difficulties of an internet society. Choosing the wrong word can sometimes make things spin out of control.
So, it is always a good idea to give some hint you mean a comment to be humorous. It is always a good idea to try to read something in a different light, with an understanding that the other person may have used the wrong word or misspelled.