I am 27 and I am ****** up since I remember getting my first spanking. Will I be any worse in 3 years?
I am already living with medication for my depression, and for panics when I am near people. I can't trust them. In fact they scare the hell out of me.
I Was affected to a big degree by it. Long story and I don't have enough time right now. However, I don't assume it will affect every kid negatively. It definitely CAN. But it doesn't mean it will.
But why do people who were not affected by it, assume, no kid will be affected by it?
I Agree. But they do it in good faith. After all most pastors advocate it. When I hear them, I want to throw up. On the other hand. We have matters of life and death. In this case, it should be acceptable. Not encouraged. But acceptable. However, if one can somehow avoid it, even in these cases...
to save them from deadly dangers (I Don't mean the stove for crying out loud). It's acceptable, if you can avoid it though. Try to avoid it.
If he runs into the street, unless you have a safety harness, spank him. But I suggest you buy one. Win win solutions are better. Try to compromise...