My sister and I are two very different people who are, in reality, the best of friends but she's a perfectionist and I'm not. So, I get in "trouble" often, because I'm not motivated at all today to do certain things that I feel aren't priority because the trees aren't done letting go of these leaves. They keep falling and making more colorful messes to rake.
If one person goes out and rakes, everyone goes out the same day in my cul-de-sac and mows, weeds, rakes...it's so stupid. There isn't a home owner's association here or anything. And no one here is Martha Stewart. You feel this pressure to get out and catch up with everyone else. I say...whatever. She says, let's go!
There's nothing wrong with growing goodies in the yard. I admire your ability to do so. I wish I had the desire to do more natural things outdoors. I enjoy walking and admiring nature but I'm not good at a great many things...
Ah, your sister is your sister. Enjoy the walks. Enjoy nature. I suck at water skiing. I'm marginally good at cosmetics and martial arts. And as a dancer, I'm really not at all good in hip hop, which is strange because a lot of dancers see the necessity of being good at that genre. And according to my colleagues, I'm only just beginning to be at all effective at marketing - even though my skills in business operations is stellar.
What I'm saying is that if you want to be good at something, you'll learn how. If you don't care to, it's your life. And life is too dang short to worry about such trivial things.
Forgive me....I have a day off today, and I'm used to talks like this....and one of my faults is that I have a tendency to meddle. But you're doing great, Dawny. Look at it this way - you haven't stabbed anyone in the eye with a pair of scissors, so it's a GREAT DAY!