A happy life

[JDMS]

To me thats like saying a person who has sex with kids and adults isn't a pedophile

Answer me.

Is a bisexual man who's had sex with BOTH men and women gay or straight? Just answer the question instead of bringing pedophilia into this. That's disgusting.

 

[We Never Know]

Answer me.

Is a bisexual man who's had sex with BOTH men and women gay or straight? Just answer the question instead of bringing pedophilia into this. That's disgusting.

Depends on who they are with. They have straight sex with women and gay sex with men.

 

[We Never Know]

Answer me.

Is a bisexual man who's had sex with BOTH men and women gay or straight? Just answer the question instead of bringing pedophilia into this. That's disgusting.

Now answer my question. Is male on male sex gay sex?

 

[JDMS]

Now answer my question. Is male on male sex gay sex?

Yes, of course it is. It's gay sex, straight sex, etc.
The person is still bisexual though, even within those terms. Sexuality describes attraction, not action. A straight man who's never had sex before is still straight, a gay man who's never had sex before is still gay, etc. etc.

 

[We Never Know]

I'll have to agree with @Windwalker on this one. We are social animals and feedback from our peers is important.
And, to answer your questions, I know you as @We Never Know, I see your avatar, we meet on RF. This is our "public".
I wouldn't mind you do the same IRL. Processions, prides, protests, appearances on TV are informations about how other people think.
There are limits, yes, you shouldn't do it on the job, you shouldn't do it to a captive audience and there are ways which are way too much "in the face". But overall, I think, we are too apathetic. There is a line between being tolerant and being disinterested.
We should care more not less.

I could be standing beside you tomorrow at the minimart and you would have no clue who I am. That's the great thing of being anonymous here.

 

[We Never Know]

Yes, of course it is. It's gay sex, straight sex, etc.
The person is still bisexual though, even within those terms. Sexuality describes attraction, not action. A straight man who's never had sex before is still straight, a gay man who's never had sex before is still gay, etc. etc.

They have gay sex which is why I see them as gay.

 

[Heyo]

Now answer my question. Is male on male sex gay sex?

Nope.

With whom you have sex or not doesn't say anything about your sexual orientation.
Homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, paedophilic describe to whom you are attracted.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

To me thats like saying a person who has sex with kids and adults isn't a pedophile

Words mean different things. Pedophile is anyone who has sex with a child. But a gay person is someone who exclusively has sex with the same sex(specifically someone who is attracted exclusively to the same sex, whether theyve had sex or not). It's why LGB are different categories. Lesbian, gay, bi.

 

[JustGeorge]

In my opinion the best way to live a happy life is to live your life, don't worry about the lives of others and don't parade your life about in public to others.

I'm a straight married, gun owning, america loving, nonreligious fella.
I don't go parade around in public about any of it because...
to name a few..
1. Its not the business of anyone else.
2. I don't want to draw attention
3. I don't want people asking me being you're straight, what do you think about LBGT
4. I don't want people *****ing about my guns
5. I don't want people preaching to me

My point is if you put your life out into the public for everyone to see and know, don't ***** because you get criticized.

I don't intentionally draw attention. But sometimes I do, because I'm a bit off the beaten path. I don't try to hide it. I don't automatically disclose personal information, but if you ask me, I'll answer.

But, I don't really care if folks criticize me. Go for it. Not everyone's gonna like me.

Again lets say we agree to disagree. A man having sex with a man I see as gay, no how often needed.

What if a man has sex with a woman and a man at the same time?

 

[JDMS]

They have gay sex which is why I see them as gay.

Why aren't they straight then? They have straight sex by your definition

 

[Heyo]

I could be standing beside you tomorrow at the minimart and you would have no clue who I am. That's the great thing of being anonymous here.

So, gay prides are OK if everyone is wearing a mask? (And not only because of Covid.)

 

[We Never Know]

I don't intentionally draw attention. But sometimes I do, because I'm a bit off the beaten path. I don't try to hide it. I don't automatically disclose personal information, but if you ask me, I'll answer.

But, I don't really care if folks criticize me. Go for it. Not everyone's gonna like me.



What if a man has sex with a woman and a man at the same time?

If a man has sex with the man its gay sex.
If they both do the woman, its sex

 

[We Never Know]

So, gay prides are OK if everyone is wearing a mask? (And not only because of Covid.)

You got that out of this...
"I could be standing beside you tomorrow at the minimart and you would have no clue who I am. That's the great thing of being anonymous here"

 

[Heyo]

Words mean different things. Pedophile is anyone who has sex with a child.

Nope.
Paedophile is anyone who is attracted to children. Someone who has sex with a child is a rapist.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

Nope.
Paedophile is anyone who is attracted to children. Someone who has sex with a child is a rapist.

True.

 

[JustGeorge]

If a man has sex with the man its gay sex.
If they both do the woman, its sex

But what if...

No. Don't even want to go there.

It seems you are a little put off by the idea of someone being bisexual. Perhaps I'm misinterpreting it, but that's what I'm picking up. Do you not believe it is possible, or is the gay/straight thing just something a person switches between like a light switch?

 

[Heyo]

You got that out of this...
"I could be standing beside you tomorrow at the minimart and you would have no clue who I am. That's the great thing of being anonymous here"

I got that out of the contradiction you are showing. You don't want people to "preach at you" (show their opinions) IRL but you come here to "preach at us" and justify that by the fact that we are anonymous. Something doesn't add up.

 

[We Never Know]

But what if...

No. Don't even want to go there.

It seems you are a little put off by the idea of someone being bisexual. Perhaps I'm misinterpreting it, but that's what I'm picking up. Do you not believe it is possible, or is the gay/straight thing just something a person switches between like a light switch?

Gay sex is gay sex. When a man is having sex with a man he is acting upon gay tendencies

 

[Spirit of Light]

So you are male, if you are bisexual and sleep with your same sex, aren't you also gay(which you denied two days ago).

No, it means I realized I can fall in love with both male and female. It is more on a romantic level of love toward male, sex isn't the important to me.

 

[Truthseeker]

As Bi-sexual

My wife is similar, only attracted to women. Nevertheless, she loves me and puts up with me with my autism and ADD. She turns 68 today on October 21st. On the 22nd we will have been married 40 years.