A happy life

[Spirit of Light]

I see man on man, part time or full time as gay sex.

If that is your view that's ok.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

My wife is similar, only attracted to women. Nevertheless, she loves me and puts up with me with my autism and ADD. She turns 68 today on October 21st. On the 22nd we will have been married 40 years.

Happy early anniversary.

 

[We Never Know]

I got that out of the contradiction you are showing. You don't want people to "preach at you" (show their opinions) IRL but you come here to "preach at us" and justify that by the fact that we are anonymous. Something doesn't add up.

Anonymous is Anonymous. Its that simple. People talk/share more when its
anonymous.

Most everyone here, including you come here and post things because one, its anonymous.
If it was required to post your name, address, etc the conversations here would be different.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

Anonymous is Anonymous. Its that simple. People talk/share more when its
anonymous.

Most everyone here, including you come here and post things because one, its anonymous.
If it was required to post your name, address, etc the conversations here would be different.

Boy I wish that were true. But then Facebook came along and people were just as toxic when it was their real name.

 

[JustGeorge]

Gay sex is gay sex. When a man is having sex with a man he is acting upon gay tendencies

What if you take sex out of the equation? What if its simply attraction? (Say in the case of someone who is a virgin)

Do you not believe bisexuality exists?

Anonymous is Anonymous. Its that simple. People talk/share more when its
anonymous.

Most everyone here, including you come here and post things because one, its anonymous.
If it was required to post your name, address, etc the conversations here would be different.

Eh, I don't seek to be anonymous. No, I'm not going to give you my address, because that would be unwise and potentially unsafe. Perhaps if I knew a member well, I would share that information privately. But I don't seek to hold anything back. What I would say online is about what I would say in person.

 

[JDMS]

@Seeker of White Light don't worry about how other people try to define your sexuality. If they complain and say, "but I thought you said you weren't gay!", just tell them that yes, that's correct. By your own definition, you are not gay. So you weren't "lying" when you said you weren't. Then if they continue to argue with them, just ignore them and move on. They are just being picky and rude. Only you understand yourself.

It seems like you are doing a lot of self exploration lately. Keep on your journey with your head held high. I hope the journey will be good for you.

 

[Spirit of Light]

If @We Never Know want to see me as Gay let him do so i don't judge him for his views.

 

[Spirit of Light]

@Seeker of White Light don't worry about how other people try to define your sexuality. If they complain and say, "but I thought you said you weren't gay!", just tell them that yes, that's correct. By your own definition, you are not gay. So you weren't "lying" when you said you weren't. Then if they continue to argue with them, just ignore them and move on. They are just being picky and rude. Only you understand yourself.

It seems like you are doing a lot of self exploration lately. Keep on your journey with your head held high. I hope the journey will be good for you.

Thank you i am in a very good place right now

 

[We Never Know]

What if you take sex out of the equation? What if its simply attraction? (Say in the case of someone who is a virgin)

Do you not believe bisexuality exists?



Eh, I don't seek to be anonymous. No, I'm not going to give you my address, because that would be unwise and potentially unsafe. Perhaps if I knew a member well, I would share that information privately. But I don't seek to hold anything back. What I would say online is about what I would say in person.

I know what bisexual is.
In my opinion sex with a man is gay sex.
A man can have 99% of his sex with men and 1% with a women to avoid being called gay because that make him bisexual.
Some bisexuals won't even admit they have gay sex. Its just sex.
In society being bisexual isn't looked down upon as much as being gay is.
For that some want to avoid the gay label.

 

[We Never Know]

Boy I wish that were true. But then Facebook came along and people were just as toxic when it was their real name.

I only have friends I know on facebook.
I don't have aquaintences there.
I have been on face book since around 2009.
My friend list of people I add just finally broke 150 lol

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I only have friends I know on facebook.
I don't have aquaintences there.

I don't use Facebook at all anymore, but I've read enough comment sections.

 

[We Never Know]

I don't use Facebook at all anymore, but I've read enough comment sections.

I have been on face book since around 2009. Mainly for family.
My friend list of people I add just finally broke 150 lol
If someone sends me a request, unless I have five friends in common with them, I delete their request.

 

[We Never Know]

I don't use Facebook at all anymore, but I've read enough comment sections.

I keep to myself most always.
Example... Been here for over 3 years.
I've been blown up, shot, stabbed, etc. in life and shared that with one person here in detail. However that person wouldn't know me if I was standing beside them.

 

[Heyo]

I know what bisexual is.
In my opinion sex with a man is gay sex.

It seems we are talking about different things here. You are talking about gay sex. (Which isn't a thing, but anyway.)
We are talking about homosexuality, i.e. being gay.
You can have "gay sex" without being gay and you can be gay without having "gay sex".
Agree?

 

[JustGeorge]

I know what bisexual is.
In my opinion sex with a man is gay sex.
A man can have 99% of his sex with men and 1% with a women to avoid being called gay because that make him bisexual.
Some bisexuals won't even admit they have gay sex. Its just sex.
In society being bisexual isn't looked down upon as much as being gay is.
For that some want to avoid the gay label.

I know you know what bisexual is. You're a smart guy. What I'm asking is if you believe (or acknowledge, pick your term) that some people are bisexual, or whether you see folks as just being gay/lesbian or straight.

I'm not sure if society looks down more or not on bisexual people or not, as opposed to just gay. Would be interesting to find out.

 

[Heyo]

Eh, I don't seek to be anonymous. No, I'm not going to give you my address, because that would be unwise and potentially unsafe. Perhaps if I knew a member well, I would share that information privately. But I don't seek to hold anything back. What I would say online is about what I would say in person.

Same here. The difference between here and RL is that IRL I know who I'm talking to. Here can be lurkers who just want to have my address to bombard me with adds.

 

[Aupmanyav]

My point is if you put your life out into the public for everyone to see and know, don't ***** because you get criticized.

The present is OK, but I have done many wrong things in my past. Would not like to publicize them. I am not a Gandhi that I experiement with truth.

 

[Spirit of Light]

Since this thread is about happy life

I have never been more happy, calm, relaxed and joyful as I am now.
Being me is good these days

 

[Yerda]

Since this thread is about happy life

I have never been mire happy, calm, relaxed and joyful as I am now.
Being me is good these days

Nice. Sounds like you're living in a state of grace right now. Enjoy that.

 

[Spirit of Light]

Nice. Sounds like you're living in a state of grace right now. Enjoy that.

Yes I feel truly well now