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A serious question for the religious types about gay and trans people

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
God created marriage, not man.
God has never said any such thing to me.
Why would I believe you? And why would I believe that you know which version of "Biblical" marriage God really meant? Back in biblical times men married as many women as they could afford. Men flat out bought women.

I think modern marriage, a mutually supportive and committed and exclusive relationship between two adults, is vastly superior to what the bible authors thought best.
Tom
 

randomvim

Member
It's My Birthday!
Homosexuality is not a mental disorder, as noted by science.
I wasn't talking about homosexuality. reread please.

Sexuality is NOT a choice. Look it up.

Both heterosexuals and homosexuals can choose to not have sex; - but why should they condemn themselves to being monks for the rest of their lives?
sexuality includes preferences.

http://au.reachout.com/what-is-sexuality

even in provided link, one I disagree with on many grounds, elaborates sexuality as something to learn. I agree that these things must be learned but it goes into what type of person or characteristics one is attracted to.

to not have sex is not condemnation nor would it kill anyone. but abuse of sex sure can.

So you think child producing sex, is the only right kind? SO, - heterosexuals that can't have children should become monks and have no sex for the rest of their lives?
what? I simply believe nature knows best and if your body is meant to be for something specific - respect that, don't abuse it. this doesn't mean we have to be goal centered for kids only but open to it. couples who can't have children are not restricted to no sex but we all need to and should accept that some days we can go without sex.

Now my post that you responded to was mentioning this natural aspect to suggest that some acts do not generate from the natural desire to procreate.

Your religion does not dictate to the rest of us - what is right concerning sex!
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what I commented on was not based on religious view points. otherwise last portion of your sentence is not easily understood. please elaborate.
 
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randomvim

Member
It's My Birthday!
God has never said any such thing to me.
Why would I believe you? And why would I believe that you know which version of "Biblical" marriage God really meant? Back in biblical times men married as many women as they could afford. Men flat out bought women.

I think modern marriage, a mutually supportive and committed and exclusive relationship between two adults, is vastly superior to what the bible authors thought best.
Tom
where does it say in the Bible which marriage is best? no where do I see anyone person or notation say "marry many women as you want, that's the best thing you can do".

All I have read is mentioning of how marriages were and a system of governance. That is not condoning nor outright explanation of what should be done.
 

Wirey

Fartist
So, see you have to really stretch logic for it to have any impact on your life. Which I think helps understand the OP inquiry better and how do certain things impact you.

I see it as the quick response is - it doesn't impact your life, and you (everyone) knows this. But pass a few moral judgments and stretch the logic to this could plausibly open me up to that immorality/attack and suddenly we, who care about them, are righteous to do everything we can to prevent them from being like that.

And yet, as stated in my previous post, it could be occurring tonight in your neck of the woods and I'm feeling fairly confident that there's not a darn thing you (or anyone) will do about it. But if you were to directly find out about it, let condemnation and punishment be on the table. And then wonder how that doesn't impact you. Good luck.

I'm afraid I don't understand your point. Are you saying that two consenting adults who are harming no one is the same as someone breaking the law and harming a child who has no ability to protect themselves? Further, that my embrace of society that allows harm to come to children has no affect on me? Or am I misunderstanding you?
 

Wirey

Fartist
God created marriage, not man. Do you have proof of your God? Living anyway one desires doesn't get one to heaven, anymore than not believing there is a God, only a life described in the New Testament will.

God created marriage? When?
 

shava

Active Member
God has never said any such thing to me.
Why would I believe you? And why would I believe that you know which version of "Biblical" marriage God really meant? Back in biblical times men married as many women as they could afford. Men flat out bought women.

I think modern marriage, a mutually supportive and committed and exclusive relationship between two adults, is vastly superior to what the bible authors thought best.
Tom
The New Testament is clear on these subjects. We are not under the Old Testament law anymore, that's why we have a New Testament.
 

Acim

Revelation all the time
I'm afraid I don't understand your point. Are you saying that two consenting adults who are harming no one is the same as someone breaking the law and harming a child who has no ability to protect themselves?

Nope, not saying that. But did state in post #148: I doubt someone would be able to make the case for how it actually impacts them, unless they invoke sense of harm as if it is presumed to be automatic.

To me, it is quite plausible that a minor (say 15 years old) could consent. I intentionally used the word minor before. If you are of the opinion that a minor cannot consent, because that is how you interpret legalities or whatever, then it is debatable, but has only a little to do with the point. It's quite plausible that in a case of an adult who is getting freaky with a minor that no one is being hurt. Yet, if you are presuming it to be automatic, then the debate will be short lived. And IMO, is no different than assuming things like homosexuality and transgender are automatically harmful to a society. Sounds all pretty in its righteousness, but I believe is implausible to defend.

Further, that my embrace of society that allows harm to come to children has no affect on me? Or am I misunderstanding you?

Misunderstanding the point that you are asking about in OP. It is found in how you chose to respond to the inquiry I asked. You're coming from what I'd call ignorant righteousness.

Moreover, you still haven't chosen to address that it could very easily be happening right now in your neighborhood (within feet of you) and then explain how that is truly impacting you. Are you inherently unsafe right now?

My point is that the perceived wrongness is really a judgment of own self. But given the projection and the presumption of (automatic) harm to society (really guilt), it creates a convoluted mess whereby ignorant righteousness seems to be the way out, to say it is all on them, when very clearly it is them who are dreaming it up as a problem to begin with. And on top of it, aren't facing the reality that it very much could be happening right next door to them and that it really, truly doesn't impact your life. But the righteousness claims it surely is. I think our back and forth has made this clear. You want to be hung up on consent stuff, that's fine, but that's easily missing the larger picture. I also don't honestly think you could win on the consent thing other than sticking with legalities. But I honestly think that's the only card you have to play in not understanding the larger point.

Really, if just dealing with impact your life, we could go with murder. Already illegal, already well known as not something society will support. And yet it happens and unless it is persons you know, you don't readily have impact on your life when it occurs. Could be neighbors right next to you (that you know, but say aren't close to) and one shoots the other, and yes, it'll have some impact on you, but nothing significant. And that's murder, that's me choosing the extreme to make the point of impact as negligible more succinct.

With other things, the harm has to be read into it, and it's far more the (subjective) morality and then projection of what that says about me if I'm aware it is occurring near me, that is what you're asking about in OP.

I don't see how any anti-homosexual person who is unaware of what goes on between two people could be possible impacted by the situation. When they become aware of it (however that looks), what I believe they are likely to be mostly impacted by is their own judgment, based on their own sense of morality and projection of harm against society / the people involved. I fully expect that it would be a claim of "they are doing this" (bad) stuff. Feeling all righteous in pointing that out. And seemingly overlooking the self evident aspect that the actual pronouncement of it being bad/harmful is ENTIRELY on them. Especially in matters such as what we've been discussing thus far.
 

shava

Active Member
God created marriage? When?
Yes, he created marriage, by creating the definition of marriage when he created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.

Genesis 2:24 (NKJV)
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

However, from Genesis 2:24, we can conclude that homosexual relationships are not recognized or approved by God. Man is not the companion for man. Woman was created for man. This same verse also implies that polygamy is also not what God intended for man either.

Hebrews 13:4 (NKJV)
4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Genesis 1:28 (NKJV)
28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

In fact, God takes this one step further. Sex is not only a privilege within marriage, it is also a requirement. Open your Bible and read I Corinthians 7:1-9.
 

shava

Active Member
God created marriage? When?
Yes, he created marriage, by creating the definition of marriage when he created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.

Genesis 2:24 (NKJV)
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Marriage is an institution that was developed by God, not man. When a man and a woman join in matrimony the knot is tied by God (Matthew 19:6).

First, marriage is a commitment between one man and one woman. Anything else is an abomination in God's sight. In Romans 1:21-32, Paul describes the decay of the Greek and Roman society of his day. The decay started when men refused to believe in the one true God. In their arrogance, they made up their own gods and began to worship them. As they turned from God, they became more and more corrupt.

God recognized their insistence on doing evil, so he removed the restraints and let them do as they pleased. They began having sex whenever and with whomever they pleased. However, they were not content with these sins. They went even further and God let them go where they insisted on going. They began having homosexual relationships.

Unfortunately, it didn't stop there. They continued to go farther and farther into sin. The society became corrupt and violent. I'm sad to say that this decay is being repeated in our own country. In the 1960's and 1970's, we had the "free sex" movement. The 1980's brought in the insistence that homosexualism is just an alternative lifestyle. In this decade, violence is becoming so common that people are beginning to see it as normal. We have metal detectors at schools. Innocent people are gunned down in drive-by-shootings. And still the decay continues.

However, from Genesis 2:24, we can conclude that homosexual relationships are not recognized or approved by God. Man is not the companion for man. Woman was created for man. This same verse also implies that polygamy is also not what God intended for man either.
 

Wirey

Fartist
Misunderstanding the point that you are asking about in OP. It is found in how you chose to respond to the inquiry I asked. You're coming from what I'd call ignorant righteousness.

That is a fair point I suppose. But arguing that people harming children doesn't affect me as long as I don't know about it is also a little facetious, don't you think?
 

Wirey

Fartist
Yes, he created marriage, by creating the definition of marriage when he created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.

Genesis 2:24 (NKJV)
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

However, from Genesis 2:24, we can conclude that homosexual relationships are not recognized or approved by God. Man is not the companion for man. Woman was created for man. This same verse also implies that polygamy is also not what God intended for man either.

Hebrews 13:4 (NKJV)
4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Genesis 1:28 (NKJV)
28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

In fact, God takes this one step further. Sex is not only a privilege within marriage, it is also a requirement. Open your Bible and read I Corinthians 7:1-9.

This presupposes belief in the Adam and Eve myth. Who married cavemen?
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
What I want to know is why religious conservatives make it their business to butt in on private matters of people who believe differently? What makes them feel it is their "right" to discriminate against the LBGT community, especially when legally they cannot discriminate, for any reason, against sex, ethnicity, disability, creed, religion, age, race, or national origin?
even in provided link, one I disagree with on many grounds, elaborates sexuality as something to learn. I agree that these things must be learned but it goes into what type of person or characteristics one is attracted to.
Where oh where did I ever learn to be turned on by pain?
 

VioletVortex

Well-Known Member
I don't care what people do sexually. It has absolutely no effect on my life. I don't see why anyone should give a **** about other peoples' sexuality.
 

Wirey

Fartist
What I want to know is why religious conservatives make it their business to butt in on private matters of people who believe differently? What makes them feel it is their "right" to discriminate against the LBGT community, especially when legally they cannot discriminate, for any reason, against sex, ethnicity, disability, creed, religion, age, race, or national origin?

Where oh where did I ever learn to be turned on by pain?

Reading posts here?
 

Servant_of_the_One1

Well-Known Member
Why do you care? If I decide to get freaky withy another guy, (I'd pick @columbus so I could be the dude, btw) what possible affect does it have on your life, or your relationship with God? If I decide to get 10 inches of pecker chopped off (ladies, how you doin'?) and wear dresses, how does it impact you?


Well i take it as offense to the Creator.

He made Adam and Eve to continue mankind.

I find it insultive for gays and transsexuals to decide something else.
 

Wirey

Fartist
Well i take it as offense to the Creator.

He made Adam and Eve to continue mankind.

I find it insultive for gays and transsexuals to decide something else.

Why insulting? They're not harming you, or asking you to join in. Is it a perception thing, where you believe their actions offend God?
 

randomvim

Member
It's My Birthday!
ooo, colours....
What I want to know is why religious conservatives make it their business to butt in on private matters of people who believe differently? What makes them feel it is their "right" to discriminate against the LBGT community, especially when legally they cannot discriminate, for any reason, against sex, ethnicity, disability, creed, religion, age, race, or national origin?
1. why is it discrimination? how is someone discriminating?

2. is all domestic activities private matters that no one else should chime in on?

Where oh where did I ever learn to be turned on by pain?
I don't know but you can learn it. some already do. either giving it or taking it. That's why sex/porn world is so diverse with hitting, choking, and b.s. of that kind.

It happens over time and it occurs by exposure.
 

Servant_of_the_One1

Well-Known Member
Why insulting? They're not harming you, or asking you to join in. Is it a perception thing, where you believe their actions offend God?

From personal opinion i think when they dress as woman or when they commit sodomy its very insultive towards the Creator.

The Creator showed us the clean natural way.


Ofcourse others may disagree
 

The Emperor of Mankind

Currently the galaxy's spookiest paraplegic
Why do you care? If I decide to get freaky withy another guy, (I'd pick @columbus so I could be the dude, btw) what possible affect does it have on your life, or your relationship with God? If I decide to get 10 inches of pecker chopped off (ladies, how you doin'?) and wear dresses, how does it impact you?

I don't care, it has no affect and it does not impact me at all. You'll be hard-pressed to find a Pagan who dislikes homosexuality and most of those are stuck in Abrahamic and/or patriarchal mindsets. There are Pagan deities who bless & protect same-sex relationships such as Dionysus and Tu Er Shen.
 
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