I'm in the same boat. It's a very fine line to walk. On one hand, I feel a need to counter the claims, as some are so out there, and on the other hand, I don't like upsetting people, because they all seem to get so defensive and upset at the slightest hint of 'not quite their way' or any difference of opinion at all. So maybe it's time to fold 'em again. Too bad really. We've had a few good discussions.
On this line, there are several ongoing civil wars where governments or small rebel forces kill people, not just harass or imprison them. But we don't hear any protesting by Baha'is about that. The net casualties in the Sri Lankan civil war, which I'm very close to, was at least 40 000, many innocent civilians. I still won't go there, even though I've been invited almost ad nauseum.