Ok so uf the woman agreed with being pregnant, and then changed her mind, she has no right to abort?
Depends. As I said, such things are very contextual. You can't make sweeping statements here.
There are scenario's where it might be and there are where it might not be.
Personally, I'm a guy who values prior engagement. Let's say I'm a man of honor, lol. Prior engagements should mean something, right. But then again, there are situations where the other party doesn't hold up their end of the bargain, which might make the whole thing void.
As said... it all depends.
Ok so she has the final say, she descides if she whants to do something that would harm the embryo. ..... you are contracting yourself
I'm not contradicting myself.
You just keep on ignoring that I said multiple times now that the embryo is not part of her body.
It's a third party that inhabits it. Big difference.
I'll just say it like I would to a child:
- If you don't want it there, have it removed.
- If you decide to keep it: treat it well.
Capice?
if she has the final say then you shouldn't stop her from doing stuff that would harm the embryo
Do you even read the posts you reply to?
I'm going to repeat myself only so many times though...
If you keep it, you treat it well and nurture it.
You act in context of the responsibility you decided to take on.
If I decide to donate blood to you, then I won't be consuming loads of alcohol and taking a heroin shot right before the donation.
You are truly grasping.
What can i say..... the woman agreed to be pregnant, and be a mother,
That is not at all the case in many many pregnancies. If not most.
And even if it is, it matters not. Things can change. People can change their minds.
Complications can occur (both biological as well as sociological)
but she didn't agreed to stop smoking, stop drinking alcohol , or stop taking that legal drug that would certainly cause long term harm in the fetus.
Yes that's horrible. I can't for the life of me understand why some people would do that.
I'm not sure what the laws are about that. But imo, there should be some kind of enforcement there. For me, it falls under neglect. Kids get taken away from parents in case of neglect.
Should she have the right to do both (accept the pregnancy and take that legal drug?)
It's a bit unclear to me how one could enforce such laws.
But on the other hand, we also already have quite some laws that only serve to protect kids from their parent's unhealthy habits.
Like for example in Belgium, it has become illegal to smoke in a car while there are minors in it.
You could enforce such a thing in public through social control and stuff, but what are you going to do about what people do indoors in the privacy of their home?
I guess you could have gynecologists' perform tests on visits, but you'll only get a snapshot and many positives are likely also going to be false positives.
So not sure about that, that's above my paygrade.
Purely morally, I consider it deeply immoral to decide to carry through the pregnancy and have the baby and then live a lifestyle that is harmful to it.
I also consider it immoral to neglect your born children. Or just not provide an as healthy lifestyle as possible. For example, people who take their kids to McDonalds every other day, knowing how bad it is for them. Parents who keep their kids up way to late, who don't help with their school work, who don't keep them clean, etc etc etc etc etc.
I'm the kind of guy who thinks like "
If you are going to do something, then do it well "