Koldo
Outstanding Member
I realize this is somewhat of a semantic argument, but the connotation of the word "blame" typically carries the sense of assigning guilt, shame, and condemnation with it. "It was his fault", makes everyone blameless, and condemns the guilty. Self-blame is typically self-condemnation. "It's my fault. I'm a bad person", is that inner judge. It's a voice developed in early childhood, where the child assumes blame for things that happen to them, such as blaming themselves for mom and dad's divorce. Adults carry this with them in their lives in different situations, and it operates at a very subtle, hidden level which eats away at one's self-worth.
Taking self-responsibility is actually productive and is different than self-blame. Taking responsibility for one's actions typically does not bring condemnation along with it. It brings self-acceptance, which tends to be realistic and healing. "I made a mistake and accept responsibility for that error", is a very different mental attitude than, "It's all my fault. I am a bad person. Blame me". In reality, the latter is not truly accepting responsibility. It simply misuses it for self-abusive. It's not about taking responsibility. It's about assigning blame and condemning someone still, in this case their own self.
I use the word blame the same way as you, but not the term 'self-responsibility'. My point is more like: Knowing that we had and have agency is not per se conducive to what you call self-responsibility. If anything, I find it more likely to trigger blaming on oneself.
Not exactly. Rather than seeing a direct cause and effect relationship, it also entails indirect consequences. It's much more compatible with chaos theory in this way. Unintended and unforeseen consequences are encompassed by it. But that is not about the universe conspiring against you, as an active agent with yourself the intended target at its mercy. That's very much tied into the Christian notion of a vengeful deity who will right wrongs by punishing evil-doers.
Rather I would think of it more like natural buoyancy in an ocean. If someone carries the weight of wrongdoing in their lives, that affects their buoyancy and they sink lower in the water towards the sea floor where all the death and decay collects. If they get rid of the weight of wrongdoing, then they naturally rise in the water towards the surface to where the light of the sun penetrates and gives life. It's not a matter of the ocean "paying you back", rather it is purely natural consequences. If you put rocks in your pockets, you will sink. God didn't do that to you.
Western thought conditions us to think of these in dualist terms, rather than seeing that we are part of that ocean and we either work with its natural conditions, or we resist it and fail to thrive within it. When we don't, there are consequences. It's just a recognition of what works, and what does not in order to live our lives free from suffering.
One can argue it is in fact a law of Nature, with a capital N. But that's not something the natural sciences investigates. It's more than just examining physics.
You might be using the word differently but generally 'karma' is not merely tied to one's own consciousness or unintended/unforeseen circumstances.
Let me put it this way...Your view seems to be, and please correct me if I am wrong, like this: a serial killer that carries no remorse, doesn't live afraid of getting caught and that never gets caught wouldn't be carrying any weight on their boat and thus would never experience karma (related to his crimes) except by chance because of the unintended consequences of his actions. And in the other hand, if someone steals a dollar and lives constantly in remorse because of that would be experiencing a huge ammount of karma. Is that correct?
The typical usage is like this: That same serial killer would experience karma by reincarnating a lot of times and being killed again and again. Or suffering from some manner of disease. While the guy that a stole would lose a dollar, or something like that and that's it.