james blunt
Well-Known Member
That was the point that caught my eye . You made a note of seeking advice on this. As a mother you should just explain to your child that daddy is just being a bit silly right now , he is upset.He is the one trying to use her against me by telling her things no 5 year old should have to hear. Never - would I ever - USE my child. So I just deal with what he says and don't talk bad about him and hope she sees the truth someday.
You seem like you are quite smart, you should of been able to predict this sort of behavior from the father and realized it is just sadness of the split.
In predicting this type of behavior, this will allow you to stay strong and deal with the behavior without being too ''vicious'' back. I personally knew several fathers who have killed themselves because they were not allowed to see their kids , I should hope you are strong minded enough to make sure this never happens to your ex husband who you loved once and is the child's father.