But there is no "Deaf perspective". There is no black perspective, and there is no white perspective. There is only people, with varying degrees of opinions. No one opinion is more right than another when it comes to feelings
Its cultural sensitivity and communicating with people who have gone through, X and the reasons they call themselves Deaf (not deaf), Black (not african american), Duid (not pagan), and LGBTQ (not homosexual).
Each of these groups have history and their perspective as a group shows what each group have in common with their peers and which does not. It also shows how each group sees another based on their experiences. A Deaf person will see hearing people differently because communication barriers strongly influences the relationship between both groups. They have a visual perspective of the world; by the nature of being hearing, hearing people do not.
Someone who takes on the term Black doesnt do this willy nilly. To him and his peers, its an pride term to differientiate themselves by name from how whites called them: ni*, negro, black, africian american.
Its reclaiming a word and giving it a new meaning based in history. A white (Chinese, German, etc) wouldnt share a black persons and their peers view of the world. Compared to their counterparts, they have a different perspective.
A Druid wouldnt call herself a pagan because of history. They rather take the term Pagan (as Black to an negro), or use their name of faith (Joe Smoe not black).
Calling LGBTQ homosexuals is identifying their identity with their sexual attraction. Straight people dont do this. They identify as their culture, religion, and like interest see fit. The LGBTQ view (if you lool it up this weekend; PRIDE weekend), our views on equality is so much different than our counterparts. Our views are not sexually discriminative. Our perspectives mirror our opinions and decisions.
Cultural sensitivity is respecting each of these groups and how they see the world especially if you are straight, hearing, and/or white. It is subjective.
As far as cultural appropriation, there is no right or wrong. It's all subjective.
Nothing wrong with subjectivity.
To those who have been hurt over this statement, I find it wrong that
Some people with your (and others) views harm people because of it. Its not your opinions, its how people use their opinions to belittle and discriminate others.
So, a hearing person acting Deaf around Deaf people belittles and insults the unit of their connection among their peers. Cultural sensitivity is letting them have their place. Pretend you' deaf all you want but respect those around you if present by not pretending you are.
Many whites take on black customs (customs originated among black people because of discrimination likewise ASL among Deaf). To do so, from their perspective (above) not yours, is insulting them. Why would they want a white person to take (use) whatever personally let them survive together as a group. It is subjective. It is personal.
Unless a straight ally, I dont see straights taking/using things what LGBTQ have to survive. I see them do harm bacause of who we choose to be intimate with. There isnt much cultural appropriation to "sin" just out right discrimination and crime.
Cultural appropriation is when you understand these things insomuch it makes you empathetic to the desires of others.
If you arent able to do that, thats your thing. People above are looking for respect. From their view, this includes respecting cultural boundaries. At the end, its not about us one hundred percent. Thats ego.
Do whatever you want. Just acknowledge their means of respect
Around us. If thats the least you can do.