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Americastan.....Patriarchy Or Matriarchy?

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
"Patriarchy is a social system in which males hold primary power, predominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege and control of property; in the domain of the family, fathers or father-figures hold authority over women and children."
So I'd say that to be ruled by 'mostly' men is exactly what makes a patriarchy.
Think of power as having 2 components, ie, men have power, & women have power.
It is neither 100% matriarchy, nor 100% patriarchy at the moment here..
Were it such a dichotomous situation, no progress could ever be made because no balance would ever be exactly 50/50. So it's more illuminating consider what is happening with both components.
A test....
Ask some husbands & wives here if the male has more authority over the property, wife, & children.
And I don't see how women voting more than men makes a matriarchy. Men still dominate your political system, your lawmakers are predominantly men and your economy is absolutely dominated by men and you've still yet to ever have a female President. I'm not going to claim a decent understanding of America's political system but a quick look tells me that it is predominantly populated and governed by men and the fact that women are voting more doesn't make that any less of an issue.
Reading the OP, you'll see that power is not about the gender of the tool (eg, the prez), but about the hand wielding the tool (mostly women). With women driving the evolution & implementation of public policy by their votes
Progress is great, But you haven't even gotten to equality yet so I don't see how you could be a matriarchy.
I haven't said things are equal. This is about evaluating the evolution of the balance of power.
This interview I heard the other day illustrates how things change in a continuous fashion, rather than simply being either black or white. I say things are gray.
 
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Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
But how much does it really matter?

It matters because the female component of the vote exerts great influence upon leaders, who court that vote by behaving accordingly.
Women may vote in larger numbers than men, but we still had an all-male panel that discussed women's health care issues, and the things for women's health that the ACA mandated were challenged because men won't use them, even though men are getting the health things they need that women won't use.
I'm not familiar with this panel or its machinations.
But I'm looking at a larger picture than this singular event.
 

Thana

Lady
Think of power as having 2 components, ie, men have power, & women have power.
It is neither 100% matriarchy, nor 100% patriarchy at the moment here..
Were it such a dichotomous situation, no progress could ever be made because no balance would ever be exactly 50/50. So it's more illuminating consider what is happening with both components.
A test....
Ask some husbands & wives here if the male has more authority over the property, wife, & children.

Reading the OP, you'll see that power is not about the gender of the tool (eg, the prez), but about the hand wielding the tool (mostly women). With women driving the evolution & implementation of public policy by their votes

I haven't said things are equal. This is about evaluating the evolution of the balance of power.
This interview I heard the other day illustrates how things change in a continuous fashion, rather than simply being either black or white. I say things are gray.

I'm not sure there ever has truly been a 100% patriarchy, It seems to me a more general term. Historically the world was much more patriarchal than it is now and yet there were always random instances of women with influence and power.

So yes, I agree the world isn't black or white but that's really not the point. The fact is that in a general sense, America is patriarchal.
Isn't that enough? Does it have to be 100% to be acknowledged by you?

And I don't know how it works in America, but the power is absolutely with the Leader and not the voters. A good example of that is our last Prime Minister, He broke all his promises, everybody hated him and wanted him out but we, the people who voted, could do nothing.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
I'm not sure there ever has truly been a 100% patriarchy, It seems to me a more general term. Historically the world was much more patriarchal than it is now and yet there were always random instances of women with influence and power.

So yes, I agree the world isn't black or white but that's really not the point. The fact is that in a general sense, America is patriarchal.
Isn't that enough? Does it have to be 100% to be acknowledged by you?
I'm not a fan of seeing things as 100% this or that.
And I don't know how it works in America, but the power is absolutely with the Leader and not the voters. A good example of that is our last Prime Minister, He broke all his promises, everybody hated him and wanted him out but we, the people who voted, could do nothing.
Here, leaders alter their positions to suit voters.
It's how.....
- Obama & the Clintons were pushed to become pro-gay marriage.
- Bernie Sanders was pushed to become more anti-gun.
- Republicans were pushed to become pro-welfare state.
While some people focus upon the gender of the leaders, I prefer to look at the relationship between voter demographics & their effects upon government.
 

lovemuffin

τὸν ἄρτον τοῦ ἔρωτος
No, on RF, I've long been proposing the opposite of a dichotomy, ie, government & society have elements of both patriarchy & matriarchy. This is a continuation of other threads & posts in that vein.

OK. I haven't read the other threads. The thread title is "Americastan: patriarchy or matriarchy". I think that explains why you have received multiple posts pointing out the apparent false dichotomy.

I've mentioned that men dominate in politics.
But the fact that women elect them is significant.

Reading the OP, you'll see that power is not about the gender of the tool (eg, the prez), but about the hand wielding the tool (mostly women). With women driving the evolution & implementation of public policy by their votes

You did not mention that men dominate in politics in the OP. In any case, I responded to this argument in my previous post. You don't seem to have read it, but I'll expand on it. I said before that this position seemed to me to be either disingenuous or hopelessly naive. Frankly, I'm leaning towards disingenuous both as the more likely explanation and as the more charitable interpretation. The implicit logic of your argument is that women are a larger demographic at the national level, and that this is a significant measure of power. But that is trivially an unjustified conclusion, requiring an entirely too-shallow view of political power. Here are a few objections:

1) It misunderstands the nature of patriarchical hegemony as a cultural phenomenon. The second quote above makes the same mistake in this regard that I pointed out in your characterization of the question of "who rules the country?" It treats women voters as a monolithic block, almost like a political party, that can wield power in an entirely organized way via voting. But of course neither women nor men are so organized, not in a strictly gendered way. Patriarchy doesn't mean "all men vote in the interests of men" any more than matriarchy means "all women vote in the interests of women." And, regarding hegemony, many women hold social and political views which are patriarchical, and vote accordingly. This is often true of conservative religious women. And of course many men are feminist. Voter demographics can't capture this at all in either direction. The very definition of "patriarchy" or "matriarchy" in this context has to do with an assessment of cultural forces that shape society in more complex ways.

Beyond that, as I said before, the other impact of hegemony is in who is running for office, and what support do they get from the donor class, political parties, and media. The point is that all of these social institutions reflect hegemonic cultural attitudes about gender, and limit the opportunities of women in a way that suffrage can't make up for on its own. Your argument implicitly hand-waves away that 80% of congress is male by suggesting (but not stating outright) that it must reflect the wishes of women, since otherwise they would vote them out. That is an obviously uncharitable assumption to make, and not justified by any evidence whatsoever.

2) It oversimplifies the nature of representative democracy. Neither voting nor the exercise of power by elected officials simply reduces to nationwide polling numbers. For example, there have been more self-identified Democrats than Republicans for over 70 years (cf. Pew Research). Yet we've had presidents Nixon, Ford, Reagan, H. Bush, and W. Bush in that time. It would obviously be silly to claim that partisan affiliation measured at the national level is the most important measure of political power. In the same way, restricted to only a consideration of partisan affiliation, you would find it difficult to explain Republican control of the house of representatives. Even beyond partisan affiliation, you need to account for how a 52% share of the popular vote leads to 57% of the seats in the house (cf. The Nation)

One conclusion is of course simply that voter motivations are larger than is captured by partisan affiliation. This also applies to women, whose motivations are larger than gender. But what is also missing from the analysis is the state-by-state nature of voting, which helps explain the discrepancy between popular vote and seats in the house. These complications also apply to considerations of gendered power in voting, especially taking in context the cultural nature of patriarchy. Women voters with feminist values living in especially conservative areas wield less power than similar voters in liberal areas, regardless of population numbers.

3) Your argument proves too much, which further demonstrates that it is an oversimplification. For example, consider 1920 Census data on gender. I chose that year because of the 19th amendment, of course. That census counted 106 million people in the US, and an "excess" of 2 million males. That is 51% male to 49% female. Obviously we can't compare voter exit polls from the early 1920s since they aren't available, but we can imagine that immediately following gaining the right to vote women were pretty motivated. Your argument would seem to imply that somehow patriarchy ceased to exist at this very moment, which is prima facie silly.


I'm neither opposing or favoring the welfare state herein.
To make it about whatever ideology you believe I have is an ad hominem red herring.

It's not actually an ad hominem. The problem is that your framing of the question is prejudicial, and that prejudice reflects an ideological bias unsupported by any argument. You wrote:

Some contra-indicators based upon the premise that women (more than men) are nurturers are......

2a) Government moved from conquering other countries for material gain, to conquering
other countries for humanitarian reasons, ie, to force them into our progressive image.

2b) Government has moved from treating citizens as rugged individuals to treating them
as protected beneficiaries of largesse, eg, welfare, health care, Social Security.

You explicitly frame social safety nets and humanitarian concerns in foreign policy as anti-patriarchy, but there is no evidence to support that claim. The very premise that women are nurturers is itself an example of a patriarchical attitude. Your ideological preference for "rugged individualism" (i.e libertarianism) is also quite apparent here, but you give no particular reason to associate individualism with patriarchy and social welfare with matriarchy. You provide no historical evidence to support the claim that (for example) New Deal or Great Society social programs reflect an anti-patriarchical attitude.

Their election was the result of women being a powerful voting block.
Again, the gender of the politician becomes irrelevant if they represent the will of the voters.

You have provided no evidence to support this claim. In fact, according to Gallup, in 1932 more women voted for Hoover than FDR, and the gender gap was statistically insignificant in 1964:

"Attention to women faded in the election of 1932, dominated as it was by the Depression, and fewer observations were recorded. However, when Gallup surveyed expected voters in 1936, he asked those who had voted in 1932 to declare their choice. Of those who said they had voted, 63 % of the men were for FDR, but only 57 % of the women. Only 35 % of the men said they voted for Hoover, compared to 41 % of the women. (AIPO (Gallup) Poll #53). This differential voting pattern faded to less than two percent in Presidential elections until 1952...

The election of 1960 saw women once again fade from political sight. Some of this was due to the ongoing campaign of the DNC to downplay the idea that there was a woman's vote, and some was due to the rise of new issues. The gender gap dropped to between 2 and 3 % in 1960 -- too small to be statistically significant but implying that women still voted more frequently for the Republican candidate. The GOP women's division proudly declared that in the last three Presidential elections a majority of women voted for the Republican Party, and a majority of Republican votes came from women. (WD-RNC 1962) In 1964 as in 1960 the gender gap of 2 to 3 % was too small to be significant, but it was notable because, for the first time, women were more likely than men to vote for the Democratic Presidential candidate."

(Gender Gaps in Presidential Elections)​

The evidence doesn't support your assertion that these changes in social policy are disproportionately driven by anti-patriarchical attitudes or the power of women voters.
 

lovemuffin

τὸν ἄρτον τοῦ ἔρωτος
(2nd part due to post length restriction...)

It is nonetheless a female (& trans-gender) privilege.

A theoretical privilege with no practical benefit. If we're weighing the draft against 80% of Congress being male, there is hardly any comparison.

I know a great many men & women who've had custody battles.
My observation is overwhelming favoritism for the mother.

Frankly, I consider the actual statistical data I posted to be far more valuable than your observations.

However, I'll make the argument more explicit. In order for the fact that women more often than not gain custody in divorce settlements to constitute an advantage in power, you need to demonstrate that they do so against the wishes of men. If you want to demonstrate a legal advantage, you have to demonstrate that it is the result of court decisions.

The data supports neither of those conclusions. Rather, it suggests that typically fathers either agree to the mother's sole custody or want joint custody, and given that 90% of cases are settled without a court order, and the distribution of outcomes in the case of court involvement are not heavily skewed towards the mother in comparison to the desires of fathers, the evidence does not suggest some overwhelming advantage for women.

The wage gap is real, but there are factors over & above gender discrimination.
One cannot dismiss gender related differences in choices which affect career, & consequently pay.

Here again, I already cited data that takes into consideration the other factors and still finds a significant wage gap among people who have made exactly the same career choice. Hence the BLS data on wages by occupation. The study the AAUW cited also controls for these factors and finds that the wage gap widens over time as men and women gain experience in careers. It is clear you didn't read it, so I will cite a lengthier portion:

"In part, these pay gaps do reflect men’s and women’s choices, especially the choice of college major and the type of job pursued after graduation. For example, women are more likely than men to go into teaching, and this contributes to the pay gap because teachers tend to be paid less than other college graduates.10 Economists often consider this portion of the pay gap to be explained, regardless of whether teachers’ wages are considered fair.

Yet not all of the gap can be “explained away.” After accounting for college major, occupation, economic sector, hours worked, months unemployed since graduation, GPA, type of undergraduate institution, institution selectivity, age, geographical region, and marital status, Graduating to a Pay Gap found that a 7 percent difference in the earnings of male and female college graduates one year after graduation was still unexplained.

Similarly, Behind the Pay Gap found a 12 percent unexplained difference in earnings among full-time workers 10 years after college graduation. Other researchers have also found that the gender pay gap is not fully accounted for by women’s and men’s choices."

http://www.aauw.org/files/2015/09/The-Simple-Truth-Fall-2015.pdf
So, you didn't respond to the actual argument. Also, here as well "gender related differences in choices which affect career" are also part and parcel with the concept of cultural patriarchy, in the sense that those choices don't reflect the purely individual will of women, but are conditioned by social norms which themselves are the result of patriarchy. I think we can say that those norms have diminished in power over the last 100 years, but they have not been eliminated. I work in technology, and I have seen the power of these norms and stereotypes first hand literally hundreds of times. As with your argument about the power of voters, your argument is uncharitable in how quick you are to essentially blame women for their own choices while ignoring the larger social factors at play. More than anything, I think this reflects the lack of sophistication of your libertarian worldview, especially with regard to sociological factors.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
But I'm looking at a larger picture than this singular event.
It wasn't a singular event, but a recent event that reveals how much men are still in control. If women had the control you are speaking of, this wouldn't have happened. Nor would women serving in even more military positions been strongly opposed. Nor would abstinence only programs that have totally distorted, warped, and blatantly false views on women's sexuality have ever received a dime of federal funding. "Vaginagate" would not have been a thing.
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Your ideological preference for "rugged individualism" (i.e libertarianism) is also quite apparent here, but you give no particular reason to associate individualism with patriarchy and social welfare with matriarchy.

I think you hit the nail on the head right here.
Rev is conflating civil equality and sophisticated morals with the rise in female voters. They happened to occur at the same time, but that doesn't mean that they are related necessarily. I'd put them the other way around. Increased sophistication of morality led more equality for women, but that doesn't mean women caused it by themselves.
From gay rights to gun safety to social safety net and all those other things Rev considers girlie, men also support them in increasing numbers.
Tom
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
OK. I haven't read the other threads. The thread title is "Americastan: patriarchy or matriarchy". I think that explains why you have received multiple posts pointing out the apparent false dichotomy.
No, the same objections have been raised by some old timers here.
The conversation sometimes doesn't change.
People will read into the title what they bring with them.
You did not mention that men dominate in politics in the OP.
Is that even necessary, when everyone knows it to be the case?
In any case, I responded to this argument in my previous post. You don't seem to have read it, but I'll expand on it.
I read it.
But I would recommend more concise posts.
Yours appear dauntingly long.
I said before that this position seemed to me to be either disingenuous or hopelessly naive. Frankly, I'm leaning towards disingenuous.....
.
This is the point where I become inspired in conversation.
I don't challenge your honesty & intelligence.
(It's the intended spirit of RF, you know.)
I expect reciprocity.
If you try again, with the ad hominem distractions, we'll see where it leads.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
I think you hit the nail on the head right here.
Rev is conflating civil equality and sophisticated morals with the rise in female voters. They happened to occur at the same time, but that doesn't mean that they are related necessarily. I'd put them the other way around. Increased sophistication of morality led more equality for women, but that doesn't mean women caused it by themselves.
No, you completely misunderstand by reading too much into a simple thesis,
ie, that women have gained great power which rivals that of men.
This is observable, even by people of other gender & political stripes.
From gay rights to gun safety to social safety net and all those other things Rev considers girlie, men also support them in increasing numbers.
Tom
Bear in mind that even I am very much the girly man....you know,
supporting gay rights, trans rights, the arts, education, peace, etc.
I've no shame in it.
Should I?
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
A side note if find amusing.
One of the arguments against the suffragettes was that it gave an unfair advantage to married men. Because they could just tell their wife how to vote.
:)
Tom
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
It wasn't a singular event, but a recent event that reveals how much men are still in control. If women had the control you are speaking of, this wouldn't have happened. Nor would women serving in even more military positions been strongly opposed. Nor would abstinence only programs that have totally distorted, warped, and blatantly false views on women's sexuality have ever received a dime of federal funding. "Vaginagate" would not have been a thing.
One may have a large degree of control or influence, without it being total.
Examples of privilege for either men or women exist, but they are peripheral
to the large scale evidence I offered in the OP.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
A side note if find amusing.
One of the arguments against the suffragettes was that it gave an unfair advantage to married men. Because they could just tell their wife how to vote.
:)
Tom
Those arguments would've been made by unmarried men.
Tell a wife what to do?
Nah.
Even waiguo men joint the pa taitai club if they know what's good fer'm.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
(2nd part due to post length restriction...)



A theoretical privilege with no practical benefit. If we're weighing the draft against 80% of Congress being male, there is hardly any comparison.



Frankly, I consider the actual statistical data I posted to be far more valuable than your observations.

However, I'll make the argument more explicit. In order for the fact that women more often than not gain custody in divorce settlements to constitute an advantage in power, you need to demonstrate that they do so against the wishes of men. If you want to demonstrate a legal advantage, you have to demonstrate that it is the result of court decisions.

The data supports neither of those conclusions. Rather, it suggests that typically fathers either agree to the mother's sole custody or want joint custody, and given that 90% of cases are settled without a court order, and the distribution of outcomes in the case of court involvement are not heavily skewed towards the mother in comparison to the desires of fathers, the evidence does not suggest some overwhelming advantage for women.



Here again, I already cited data that takes into consideration the other factors and still finds a significant wage gap among people who have made exactly the same career choice. Hence the BLS data on wages by occupation. The study the AAUW cited also controls for these factors and finds that the wage gap widens over time as men and women gain experience in careers. It is clear you didn't read it, so I will cite a lengthier portion:

"In part, these pay gaps do reflect men’s and women’s choices, especially the choice of college major and the type of job pursued after graduation. For example, women are more likely than men to go into teaching, and this contributes to the pay gap because teachers tend to be paid less than other college graduates.10 Economists often consider this portion of the pay gap to be explained, regardless of whether teachers’ wages are considered fair.

Yet not all of the gap can be “explained away.” After accounting for college major, occupation, economic sector, hours worked, months unemployed since graduation, GPA, type of undergraduate institution, institution selectivity, age, geographical region, and marital status, Graduating to a Pay Gap found that a 7 percent difference in the earnings of male and female college graduates one year after graduation was still unexplained.

Similarly, Behind the Pay Gap found a 12 percent unexplained difference in earnings among full-time workers 10 years after college graduation. Other researchers have also found that the gender pay gap is not fully accounted for by women’s and men’s choices."

http://www.aauw.org/files/2015/09/The-Simple-Truth-Fall-2015.pdf
So, you didn't respond to the actual argument. Also, here as well "gender related differences in choices which affect career" are also part and parcel with the concept of cultural patriarchy, in the sense that those choices don't reflect the purely individual will of women, but are conditioned by social norms which themselves are the result of patriarchy. I think we can say that those norms have diminished in power over the last 100 years, but they have not been eliminated. I work in technology, and I have seen the power of these norms and stereotypes first hand literally hundreds of times. As with your argument about the power of voters, your argument is uncharitable in how quick you are to essentially blame women for their own choices while ignoring the larger social factors at play. More than anything, I think this reflects the lack of sophistication of your libertarian worldview, especially with regard to sociological factors.
Here again, I'm uninspired to read very long posts by one who just based his argument upon my lack of intelligence & dishonesty.
I'll remind you of the final sentence in the OP.....
"And I require civility....if you want to call each other names, then start your own ^%@^$ thread."

So whatever points you wanted to make above, try again.
Be civil & succinct. Then I'll respond.
 

lovemuffin

τὸν ἄρτον τοῦ ἔρωτος
My posts are long because the topic is complex and I worked hard to support all of my assertions with data and supporting arguments. Your posts are shorter because you don't bother to do so. I don't think that is to your advantage. Your assertion that my responses are based on imputing a lack of intelligence is trivially false. My responses are based on the evidence I cited to support them.

Also, calling your argument disingenuous is not calling you unintelligent. I know you to be intelligent, which is why I find it difficult to believe you think the argument you have advanced with regard to voting power is a good argument. It seems more likely to me that you are playing something like devil's advocate to some extent, overlooking the obvious weaknesses of the argument for the sake of discussion. At least, I hope that is the case.
 

lovemuffin

τὸν ἄρτον τοῦ ἔρωτος
As a mini-rant, it's absurd to me to expect to be able to have a meaningfully insightful commentary on a topic like patriarchy (or any complex social phenomena) in something like 100 words or less. The world is a complicated place. Probably millions of words have been written on the subject. It may take 3 times as many words to refute a bad argument as it does to make it. This is not the fault of the one offering the refutation.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
My posts are long because the topic is complex and I worked hard to support all of my assertions with data and supporting arguments.
Your posts are shorter because you don't bother to do so.
You're doing it again. Note the last sentence above.
To make one's argument about me instead of the issues is to commit the sin of being tedious & uninspiring.

You're relatively new, so in the interest of friendlier conversation, I offer...

RF MISSION STATEMENT

As a community of diverse cultural and religious backgrounds, our aim is to provide a civil environment, informative, respectful and welcoming where people of diverse beliefs can discuss, compare and debate religion while engaging in fellowship with one another.

1. Personal Comments About Members and Staff
Personal attacks and name-calling, whether direct or in the third person, are strictly prohibited on the forums. Critique each other's ideas all you want, but under no circumstances personally attack each other.....
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
As a mini-rant, it's absurd to me to expect to be able to have a meaningfully insightful commentary on a topic like patriarchy (or any complex social phenomena) in something like 100 words or less. The world is a complicated place. Probably millions of words have been written on the subject. It may take 3 times as many words to refute a bad argument as it does to make it. This is not the fault of the one offering the refutation.
You may make long posts, & I'll read them when there's merit.
But to combine insult with length due to lack of concision is the problem.
I've many friends here who disagree with me, & they manage to state
their objections without becoming miffed, & making it personal.
Just look at Shadow Wolf....she & I are far apart on some things, yet
she is a paragon of civility, making me feel all warm & fuzzy.
 
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